How To Bang CouchSurfing Girls – The Complete Guide

By Maverick

CouchSurfing - Helping People Get Laid, One Exotic Foreigner At A Time

What if I told you that a gorgeous blonde chick speaking with an exotic foreign accent will be coming to your house, partying with you all weekend, then coming back to your place for some afterhours fun?

Meet the place where all of that is possible and more: CouchSurfing.org

“CouchSurfing is a neologism referring to the practice of moving from one friend’s house to another, sleeping in whatever spare space is available, floor or couch, generally staying a few days before moving on to the next house.”

Source: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Couchsurfing

I discovered Couch Surfing accidentally back in 2007 while roaming around Latin America. One of the backpackers briefly mentioned it over a few beers at a rundown hostel I was staying. I made a mental note to check it out at a later date but never did.

Two years later I started using it as a tool to get to know a city, meet interesting people, and, of course, to bang chicks.

My roommates and I hosted extensively at our Rio de Janeiro apartment and did quite well. By “well” I mean that we ended up doing a fair bit of “cultural exchange” with three out of every four chicks that came through the door. There was always an odd one who had a boyfriend back home or things just didn’t click, but the for the most part it was a successful endeavor.

Since then I’ve hosted everywhere I was staying longer than a week or two. Over the past couple of years I’ve hosted in Medellin, Colombia; Riga, Latvia; Kiev, Ukraine; Barcelona, Spain; and Bucharest, Romania.

EASY LAYS

Here’s why hosting someone is the gateway to easy lays.

  • Discretion. “What happens in Vegas stays in Vegas” The popular phrase describes perfectly any girl’s state of mind when traveling through exotic lands far away from your home. A girl is much more likely to commit sexual debauchery such as one night stands when traveling than when she’s out with her friends in her hometown.
  • Dominance and Control. Since being lead by a powerful man is an aphrodisiac to women, she’ll be naturally attracted to you, her host, while you show her around the city, leading her from venue to another. You get your chance to play a charming Spaniard seducing beautiful foreign women in Vicky, Christina and Barcelona.
  • Logistics. The trickiest part to always get right when pussy hunting is logistics. Are you staying in a hotel that doesn’t allow visitors? Is your apartment located within 5-10 min. of the city’s nightlife area? By hosting a girl, no matter what happens throughout the night, (unless she gets swooped up by a better player) you can be sure she’s ending up in your apartment when the lights go up at the club. Most often drunk, as a bonus.
  • Social Proof. Even if you don’t necessarily get the bang, going out with a hot chick dramatically raises your social value in the eyes of other chicks. So approaching other beautiful and desirable chicks will be much easier than if you were rolling solo dolo.

LOCATION, LOCATION, LOCATION

The city and country where your apartment is located will determinewhat kind of chicks will come and what their expectations will be.

For instance, if you’re hosting chicks at a party place like Rio, Barcelona or New York City, then chances are the majority of the chicks will be looking to get wasted and ride dirty at the end of the night.

On the other hand, if you’re hosting someone in a smaller transit city like Juiz de Fora (Brazil), Girona (Spain) or Albany (USA) then there’s a high probability the chick will be looking for a free motel to crash for a night.

Tip: I’ve rolled the dice several times by hosting a cute chick that was passing by my city on the way to somewhere else. Even though it worked own a couple of times, it’s not worth the hosting commitment over getting play via other means such as by going out.

PRESENTATION

You never get a second chance to make a first impression. Go look at your own CouchSurfing profile.  Do your pictures portray you in a good light? Are they showing you having a good time surrounded with friends (preferably girls)? Or do you look like the pedophile from the 10 o’clock news?

Your profile should be completely filled in.  Make sure you have plenty of references. These increase the trust as viewed in the eyes of the couch surfer.  If you’re new to the site ask your friends on Facebook (or offline) to connect and vouch for you.  Since they already know you, leaving a nice reference shouldn’t be much of a problem.

Also, do not put that you’re specifically looking for female surfer.  This would instantly set of alarms in the perspective girls and you will likely get fewer requests.

Tip: Sometimes, but not always, putting “Meet for coffee” or “Maybe” work better than a big desperate “Yes” that screams “I’m alone, come be with me.” Experiment with both settings and see which ones work for you.

Here’s a starting checklist to have a chick-magnet profile.

  • Complete profile. Fill out your profile to the best extent possible. Put your mission as some pie-in-the-sky fantasy as girls eat that up. For example: “to do orphanage work in Zambia.”
  • Pictures.  Five to ten pictures of yourself surrounded by friends, (preferably cute girls). Girls want to know that you’re a likable guy who has at least some friends.
  • References.  Have at least five or ten references (the more the better), with some of them being from girls (preferably cute).
  • Hosting Status. Experiment with either a ‘Yes’ or a ‘Maybe’ hosting status.

THE TARGET 

If you’re in a good location, and your profile is nicely filled in, you’ll start getting requests in no time. Once you get a request, it’s time to figure out what to do next.

I usually ignore requests from guys unless it’s an exceptionally interesting profile and/or I’m just tired of hosting chicks. I might also host a guy if he’s from my hometown/area and we share similar interests.

So you get a request from a girl.  First of all, understand an important, if rather understated, fact: a cute girl is all but assured of being accepted by virtually everyone (especially other horny guys), so if she’s sending you a request, then she probably found you somewhat attractive.

Now go over her profile and study it very carefully — you don’t want to be stuck with someone for 2-3 days you didn’t intent on hosting.

Check her references.  Is it the guys that are mostly leaving them, or is it a nice mix of guys and girls? If most of the references are from guys praising how “great” the girl is, and how much “fun” they’ve had together, chances are they’ve done other things besides sightseeing.

If the girl’s references are 90% from guys, then there’s a pretty good chance she’s looking for something more than just sleeping over at someone’s place.

Now, spend more time reading what she’s all about. Does she look like a party animal that will be doing tequila shots come midnight, or is she mostly a bookworm that’s looking for a more low-key vacation of visiting museums and dead guy monuments?

I’ve had great success with both; so don’t be automatically turned off if her idea of a vacation is going from church to church, unless, of course, she’s Ugly Betty’s twin sister.

Tip: think it thoroughly before accepting her request. If you accept, but change your mind later, she might leave you a negative reference – something you want to avoid at all costs.

The bottom line is that if she seems above average looking and you have free time, by all means accept her request.

PREPARATION

Now that you have a girl coming in less than twenty-four hours, it’s time to clean up your messy apartment. Girls love cleanliness, so make several sweeps cleaning up your place. Throw away those used condoms, pizza boxes, and empty beer cans. Stash away those porn magazines, that blowup doll, and your treasured “The Game” book.

Wash your cum-soaked bed sheets and have a couple of clean towels to offer your guest.

Don’t forget to cleanup any visible porn files on your computer, and empty your browser’s history of all references to your favorite porn sites. You don’t want her to form the wrong impression in case she needs your laptop to email travel photos to her friends or Skype her mom.

ARRIVAL

I’ve heard of hosts actually going to the bus/train station or the airport to meet the girl.  That’s by no means necessary (even for girls coming from non-feminist countries where men are expected to take care of the women).She’s probably been traveling for a while now, so she’ll figure out how to get to your door.

When she arrives, greed her warmly and cordially let her in. Tell her that your house is her house or say it in Spanish like a real Don Juan: “mi casa es tu casa”, so that she’ll feel more comfortable and at ease.

She’ll probably be shit tired (and smell too) from a long plane/train/bus ride, so ask her if she wants to take a shower to freshen up. Give her some clean towels (you’ve washed off those cum stains, right?)

When she’s done with the shower, pour her a glass of wine, sit her down and talk to her for a bit.  She could be interested in hitting the town hard on the evening, or could use the first night to relax, instead.

This is also a good time to tell her the rules of the house:

  • No other guests allowed.  She cannot bring home some random guy she met in a club.
  • She’s at the house only when you’re. I personally do not trust some stranger to be alone with my valuables. So under no circumstances should you give her keys to your kingdom for her to come as she pleased.

That’s it. CouchSurfing’s forums are awash with stories with very unhappy endings as a result of not obeying these two simple rules.

FIRST NIGHT

I generally do not like to push a girl for sex on the very first night. I take it slowly as the majority of my bangs have come on a second or third night. One Italian girl I hosted in Brazil made me wait four nights (her last one) until I got paid, but her monstrous tits and expert acrobatics more than made up for it.

If she’s tired (or it’s a Sunday-Tuesday), then just talk to her, get to know her and leave her alone.

This is also your chance to get inside her head.  Find out why she’s traveling, where she’s been so far, and why she came to your city.

Sit back, enjoy the wine and let her blab for a while. Shut up and just listen to her. Where is she coming from? What’s her background? Is she running away or running toward something? Young, single girls roaming the globe are not as common as you might think.

Your job here to build rapport; getting laid will come later.

Pull her into your world. Tell her a bit about yourself, your background and why you came to this city (if it’s not your native city). Tell her a story or two about how this country/city/place inspired you to reach some new heights as a man.

Seed her imagination. Give her few tips about the city. Tell her where to go, and where not go. Tell her that there’s this great restaurant she should try but its name escapes you (so you can take her there yourself later). Tell her about this one bar with a sick view of the city that she just has to try, and that if you have time you’ll take her there one night.

SECOND DAY

Even though I typically work from home, my time is valuable, so I will not sacrifice it to show the girl around during daytime. The reason is that she needs to know that your time, is, indeed, valuable, and moreover no one has sex during the day at some park with sun shining. I make myself unavailable on weekdays but may spend time with her on weekends (time permitting).

Give her some tips so she can wander about on her own. In Barcelona, I typically told the chicks to go see Parc Guell, followed by tapas at a local place. In Rio, it was to see Corcovado statue, followed by a plate of homemade feijoada in Copacabana.

Tell her you also have some things to do, and arrange to meet her back at the apartment by 6 or 7pm.

Meet her back at the apartment in evening and see how her day was. Did she enjoy going to see the places you recommended? Did she have food at those local joints you mentioned? Tease her a bit if she had trouble finding either one (“Ah you didn’t find it? Did you go to McDonalds instead?”).

Feel her out and see what her mood is like. Does she wanna slip into a tight skirt and some high heels and get wasted in the hottest club in the city, or is she up for something more low-key like a quiet bar with a view overlooking the city?

In Rio, I usually took the girls to the Lapa district for high-energy nightlife or a quiet bar by the Lagoa Lake, depending on the girl’s personality.

If she’s undecided, suggest the bar for drinks followed by the club. At the bar order light snacks or appetizers, and avoid anything heavy that may inhibit the absorption of your best friend and ally: alcohol.

THE NIGHT OUT

Once you change environments by getting her out of the house and to a nice bar, she’ll begin to realize that you’re no longer just some host, but perhaps something more (the “more” part she’ll be unsure off well until your thick cock is violating her tight pussy.)

Your job here is to simply change the venue; so don’t start spitting heavy game first. Relax and take it slow. She’ll begin seeing you in a different light in the new environment, and her behavior should change accordingly.

Before you blurt out the first flirt or compliment, take notice of how she’s acting. Has she become seemingly more nervous or unsure? Is she complimenting more with each passing sip of the wine?

Make a joke or two about something pertaining to her. Don’t fall into the trap of “negging” her or getting overly cocky/arrogant with her. Remember: she’s not some nightclub slut begging for abuse, but a guest in your home who’s already seeking your validation.

If she’s not looking around the venue for something better, but instead is engaging in eye contact with you, then it’s on. Just use standard game. Change the venue, to a club or another intimate bar. Each venue change increases your chance of the bang dramatically. Don’t ask, just lead.

If things are heating up at the other venue, then escalate (for non American/Western girls) or play it cool and aloof (for American/Western girls). Have fun, stay a bit longer, and then see if perhaps she wants to go home.

Once you get her home, continue using standard game to get through her last minute objections, if any.

If she refuses to have sex, don’t push it too much, just let her sleep and go back to your bed. Unless she’s leaving in the morning, you’ll get another shot at the title the following night.

Under normal circumstance, I use every trick in the book to get a bang, but with a possible negative looming over my head if things don’t work out, I play it cool with CouchSurfing chicks.

Patience is a virtue.

Some girls have boyfriends abroad, so while it will look like they’ll have sex with you, all you will be left is your own blue balls. Chuck that up as experience, and move on.

THE MORNING AFTER

If you’ve gotten the bang, congratulations! Job well done. If not, no big deal, there’s a lot more fish in the CouchSurfing sea.

Make sure to always leave things on a good note. I know it’s difficult if the chick lead you on but didn’t put out, but remember that when meeting chicks on CouchSurfing, we need to play by different rules. So leave the ego out of it, and act cool.

Regardless of what happened, always leave her a positive reference. I like to wait a few days before writing something to see if she’ll leave me a negative for some reason.  When writing the reference, do not say how great she’s at giving blowjobs or how fantastic she rides cock. Be discrete like the other 455 guys that banged her before you.

Rinse and repeat.

FLUIDAL EXCHANGES

CouchSurfing was designed as a way to foster cultural exchanges, but it’s even better as a medium for fluidal (and God knows what else) exchanges. When used properly it can be an absolutely brilliant tool for getting laid.  The girl comes to your house, sleeps in your place and expects you to entertain her. What could be better?

So if you’re a single guy, you’re doing yourself a huge disservice by not taking advantage of the greatest tool ever invented to foster and enhance meaningful cultural and fluidal exchanges worldwide.

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  • Jerry

    Never bothered to host surfers, but I certainly may look into it now :)

  • Pasadena Mike

    I’ve hosted a few in my apartment in LA, but was always too pussy to make a move since I always worry they might leave me a negative reference. What do I do in that case?

    • Maverick

      That’s one of the biggest problems. You have approach this carefully and only go for it when you’re sure she’s feeling the same. Not much room for error. Also, be ready to pull back at any time.

  • Horacio

    i might do that in Europe next sumer. where do you recommend?

    • Maverick

      Any tourist destination is great, although all of Europe is touristy in the summer. Just pick a Western capital city (Berlin, Rome, Paris even Barcelona) and set up camp for the summer. It’ll be a lot of fun, guaranteed.

  • Jay

    lol, i’ve hosted some chicks, but they were mostly ugly.

    • Maverick

      Yeah, that happens. But there’re some hot ones as well.

  • mark

    nice post. I didn’t know CS was a bangtool

    • Maverick

      Mark, Live and learn, live and learn…

  • Mauricio

    Mav,
    You really got a talent for taking something with one purpose
    and restructuring it for something completely different!

    Good job

  • Ben

    I just moved to Rio for three months…gonna try to host here and see how it goes. Will definitely use your advice and take them to the spots you mentioned..

    will keep ya posted

    • Maverick

      That’s one of the best places in the world to host! You really can’t go wrong…Do let me know how it goes.

      • dasm

        Mav,

        I’m also living in Rio and I must say that you’re nightlife guide has been really helpfull. However there is not much life in Democraticos anymore, especially on thursdays (because it’s closed then). But for thursday 4O grauss is the best, so maybe you change it in your article.

        It bothers me that the nightlife is so expensive and that it is a little bit gambling because everything is spreaded over the city, you cant barhop.

        Also casa matrzi was very poor quality on wednesday, maybe I should go there on saturday, but I don’t like the rock style.

        However succesratio in democraticos on saturday and 40 grauss on thursday was always high. I didn’t check so much of the upscale clubs in leblon, ipanema and gavea. Is it really worth going there?

        • Maverick

          Dasm,

          Lucky you; I miss Rio dearly.

          I went to 40 grauss a couple of times. It’s nice, a bit of a younger crowd than Democraticos.

          Casa Matriz is great for easy lays; it mostly attracts hipsterish girls from what I recall.

          As for the the South Zone — it depends how tight your game is and how much rejection you’re willing to brave. The girls are absolutely stunning but it sure isn’t easy compared to areas like Botafogo, Laranjeiras, etc.

          Have you been to Casa Rosa on Sundays?

  • Nick

    Mav,

    Noticed you said you aren’t available during weekdays for the chick, just curious what kind of schedule work wise do you keep during the week, times like 10am-2pm etc, and then do all the dating, dealing with chicks on the weekend? One of my issues is maintaining a schedule when working from home in a new location abroad.

    • Maverick

      Nick,
      The key is to have a solid schedule as though you’re working from someone else. I start my work usually at 10am and finish around 5-6pm. I like to turn off my phone so that I don’t get distracted, etc. Then in the evening deal with the chicks.

      • Nick

        Good plan, thanks for the reply.
        And weekends, any work at all?

        • Maverick

          Depends. My philosophy is “work hard, play hard.” So some weeks I might work 6-7 days, then take 3 days off to relax/take a short trip.

          You need to find a working schedule to fits you.

          • Nick

            Of course, just like to see what others are doing, and tweak it a bit.
            Thanks again for the reply.

  • http://16tonelada.blogspot.com Diogo F

    Have you and ROOSH talked about this already? He says there are no other girls than 4s and 5s in CS. He might change his mind, or you could, as well [even though if you’re OK with the talent there’s no reason to stop banging].

    • Maverick

      I’ve hosted/met some beautiful girls on CS, but as with anything else, there’re all kinds. The good thing is that there’s a picture on the profile. So you judge them and decide whether to host or not (everyone does it!) Don’t host anyone without a picture.

      • DC Phil

        And don’t forget the personality, which you can glean from the way they write.

        Roosh made a very good point about looking at the chick’s profile views. Best to go for the ones that are new or relatively new (i.e., under 200) to CS. Avoid the ones with over 1000 views, and have been doing it for a few years. Likely to be attention-whores.

        • Maverick

          I wouldn’t corner myself into filtering out those with > 1000 views. The Italian girl I hosted had > 5000 views, and glowingly positive reviews from the mostly male guys. It just meant that once she accepted your request, you were half way there in banging her (i.e., she wasn’t that picky anymore). So, you never know.

          • DC Phil

            Yep, good point. I guess one could surmise from her pics what kind of girl she is. A few months ago, I tried this in Reno with a chick who had attended Burning Man several years in a row, and made sure to post the pics of her in skimpy outfits and bikinis. Several thousand views, and that told me she was an attention-whore. This was bolstered by the fact that she insisted on filtering out certain messages that didn’t meet a certain format.

            Needless to say, I told her, in a nice way, that she could stick it where the sun don’t shine.

  • yurko

    What’s the negative reference story? And more importantly, how did you manage to get it removed? I thought it was like a death sentence on CS.

    • Maverick

      Yeah, I got a negative reference, but through some persuasion on my part I got it removed. I will go into more details in a future post.

  • dasm

    PS: “Because Rio de Janeiro is a beach city and its inhabitants, cariocas, are beach creatures, the night usually starts pretty early. It’s normal to be inline to a club at like 10:00-10:30pm.”

    I don’t think if this is the right explanation. Maybe in many parts in Brazil the night falls always early and more or less at the same time (no big seasonal changes). But what do you mean with ‘ they are beach creatures’as an explanation for the early start?

    • Maverick

      What I meant when I wrote that is that Rio de Janeiro is a city blessed with great weather and great beaches, so nightlife doesn’t go all night because people like to go to the beach the next day instead of waking up at 3pm with a full hangover.

      Cariocas are very daytime people unlike, say, Northern Europeans who like to party all night.

  • Francis

    whats your couchsurfing profile ?

    • Alex

      Ha ha!! Thats funny one!

  • dasm

    No Casa Rosa is still on my to do list. I will do it on one of the next weeks..

    Next wednesday I go to Barramusic, it’s in barra de tijuca, a bit more far away but very big place and I want to experience a huge baile funk party over there, I don’t think many tourists have been there

    Two websites are very usefull here for partying:

    for party agenda:
    http://www.festadasemana.com.br/rio_de_janeiro/agenda-list.php#!prettyPhoto

    on this website you can subscribe to the guestlist 1. you pay less 2. you can see how many people will come
    http://listaamiga.com/

    I understand that you want to come back, but coming to the same place is not so exiting. I have been living also in Playa del carmen in Mexico. The girls are very easy like in Brazil, partylife is better (concentrated, 7 days a week), it’s cheaper than Rio and the nature and surroundings a much more beautiful. I can only recommend this place to other people!

    However there’s only one BJJ club.

    • Maverick

      Also, check out “Nuth”. There’s one in Lagoa and Barra. Both are excellent.

      • dasm

        Checked out Nuth, it was good. I didn’t expect a grab-and-kiss atmosphere in high end club.

  • http://rivsdiary.wordpress.com/ rivsdiary

    absolutely brilliant. thanks to roosh for the twitter link.

  • Anon

    Heheh…Man, you’re gonna have the couchsurfing admins coming after you now like they did Roosh! Get prepared for a bunch of hate from CS girls(and some white knight guys) once this goes viral on CS forums. ;-)

    Nice write-up. Unfortunately the CS site has undergone some changes that have made things more difficult. Ever since they started the open couch request feature, my requests from women have almost completely vanished. Chics don’t want to bother having to read through a bunch of profiles and find a host they may click with. They just post a request and probably have 50 guys inviting her(if she’s hot). Then they just take their pick. Almost any girl that’s traveling solo and is at least a 6 will have the “three or more invites” button lit within the hour. And they also did something else earlier this year, when you search for a host, only the newest and least experienced members appear at the top. When I did a search for my own city just to experiment, I was like way at the bottom now. If your profile isn’t listed at least in the top 40 that come up in the search, you won’t get many couch requests. Those two moves have pretty much killed it for me. I’ve sent a few invitations to girls who posted open requests, but I don’t really want to do that as you’re just competing with a bunch of other dudes doing the same shit and it’s no different than hitting up a chic on OKCupid. You’re much better off if they choose you.

    Also, another important thing and you forgot to mention it in your article, don’t host anything but solo traveling girls. Sounds obvious, but to newbies, they may be thinking they’ll get a threesome or something. Not likely. And I’ve hosted way too many chics that turned out to have boyfriends though nothing in her profile indicated it.

    • Anon

      Btw, I’ve given girls a spare key and never had a problem. I don’t do it every time, but I can tell pretty quickly if someone is trustworthy. I probably would never do that for dudes though. It’s more convenient for both so when they go do their touristy thing during the day I don’t have to worry about being back at the exact time they get home, especially since their phone usually doesn’t work here and we have no way of communicating.

      • Maverick

        I guess you can go with your gut, but your gut can deceive you as well. I’ve hosted one trustworthy girl, but she met some guys on Ipanema beach and invited them back to my place while I wasn’t there: “to take fresh showers”.

        As a result, I don’t trust my gut so much these days.

    • Maverick

      “Also, another important thing and you forgot to mention it in your article, don’t host anything but solo traveling girls. ”

      This is excellent advice. I’ve been bitten by this in Brazil when one American girl cockblocked my attempt to get with her friend, and I personally know of a few guys that fell (and continue to fall) into this trap.

      To summarize: host one girl only or have a wingman with tight game to backup you up. I would simply just host one girl.

  • http://aroundtheworldin80girls.com neil Skywalker

    Oh man, awesome blog. How come i never heard of you before?

    Cs is great. I wrote a guest post on travelsexlife.com which partly covered banging CS girls myself a few weeks ago.

    Will be following this blog from now on.

    Cheers,

    Neil

    • Maverick

      Thanks Neil.

      Nice site you have there.

  • Nomad77

    I have a friend that does this but most of the girls he gets are traveling with friends usually 2 – 3 girls. How do you handle multiple girls at the same time?

    • Anon

      Only guys that pull that off usually have a solid wing that can peel her friends away for awhile. Short of that, I doubt anything will happen. Best host only solo traveling girls if you’re looking to hook up.

    • Maverick

      If you’re alone, you won’t be able to isolate and bang one of the girls or have threesoms, etc.

      Either host single girls, or always have a wingman on call in case 2+ girls come rolling through.

  • Nomad77

    That’s what I thought and has been the case with him.

  • http://3rdmilleniummen.wordpress.com 3rd Millenium Men

    Damn this is awesome. Very nice breakdown. Will be taking some of this advice onboard!

    • Maverick

      Good luck :)

  • drag

    You are completely right! I am member of couchsurfing site since some years ago. Officially, memembers of CS say it is not dating site, but believe it is the best dating site I have ever found. Just do slowly as Maverich describe and carefuly choose girl. More than 80% of girls there are ready for sex if she like you.

  • IH

    I have hosted some really hot women but unfortunately i am living with my parents so cannot do the bang. :-(

  • Ginger

    Don’t forget about the women who use this wonderful couchsurfing thing to get laid. I’ve been to Guyana, Lebanon, Australia, India and France (sexually speaking). Love it.

    • Maverick

      Oh, so women like to have sex with exotic strangers too? And I thought it was only us — sneaky guys. All the white knights and women protectors will go crazy when they read this.

  • Riga

    Well done Maverick! :D I’m a girl and I’ve been surfing around Europe (so far) more than a year. Had some great and some ok hosts – worthwhile conversations, little bit of touristic stuff, lots of fun, parties and nightlife, chilling, meeting it’s friends (and relatives), some romance, kissing but no insistence on sex. Totally “mi casa es tu casa”, mainly the keys of the kingdom were entrusted. I must admit that your tips are precious and sounds like Barney Stinson’s CS experience :D These things work on girls, indeed.
    Btw, I’m curious about your activities and success in Riga.. :)
    Best regards!

    • Maverick

      Glad to hear that not only guys are having fun. Riga is a great city (of my favorite Baltic cities) but it’s not for beginners.

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  • DC Phil

    One things I’ve insisted on (same with guys) is that the girls can do one or more of the following things:

    1. cook for me, especially one of their native dishes, and they buy the groceries
    2. bring me something from their home country, usually a foodstuff
    3. buy me drinks and/or a meal when we go out
    4. split the cost of gas if we’re driving out of town to see something interesting

    To me, this is only fair. She’s not going to be staying at my place for free. No way. It’s a benefit to me because I don’t have to cook and get to try something new. One Czech girl who stayed with me and who was an au pair here in DC, before she moved to North Carolina, both cooked for me and brought me a yummy Czech pastry. A two-fer.

    Now, if I can only get her to sleep with me! :)

    • Maverick

      You raise a good point. When an American girl validates to you (by cooking, bringing a gift), that’s a sign you’re going to bang soon. When a foreign girl does the same, it’s a bit murkier because she could be doing it because that’s part of her culture. The game dynamics are very different with non-American girls.

      • DC Phil

        Good supplement. Never did think about the difference between Americhicks and the foreign girls. For the most part, however, the foreign girls I’ve hosted were more than happy to cook for me. I hosted one Ukrainian woman in her 30s last year who brought me Ukrainian vodka and some other food, and then cooked for me. Too bad she was a bit of a career chick, though.

  • http://www.grcka-letovanje.org/ Grcka Letovanje

    If you are American or Italian, go to Ukraine. American and Italian are very popular there. Believe me. A lot of young and beutiful Ukrainan girls want to leave Ukraine and marry for American or Italian. A lot of Ukrainan girls travel to Italy because of sex tourism. You should post on forume one month in advance that you are coming to Ukraine, and you need host or somebody who can show you arround the city. You will get a lot of messages from beutiful girls and you can choose to meet with some of them. After that as Maverick decribed, step by step and you will have a lot of chanches…

    • DC Phil

      So, what’s your response to what Roosh (and I’m sure others) have said about Ukrainian girls being almost as cold and calculating as Russian girls? Yes, they’re angling to get out of the country and latch onto a Western guy.

      • OM

        Yes, Ukrainian girls are very cold and calculating. You would do yourself a big favor – staying away from them as far as possible. Don’t even waste your time looking at Ukrainian girl if your annual income is less than 100k.

        • Grcka Letovanje

          It is true, they are very calculated. And it is true a lot of them look for money and gifts. But you are not completely right about 100 k. Different woman have different prices and expectation. It depends on that where you meet them. There are many clubs where you date girl, she wants to meet you, she is laughing, talking with you whole evening, you order drink, dinner, you spent 100$, you already think that you will bang her, but after 3 hours she leave to toilet and she never come back. She just used to to get a dinner and drink. It is never happened with me, because I never pay dinner for girls I see first time, but I heard from many people that it happened. Also, there are many girls who wants to find foreigners because they are not satisfied with man in Ukraine, so their reason are not money. Since this topic is about Couchsurfing, I have impression that girls from CS are more modest, and they are mostly from second group. I meet many Ukrainan girls on CS having foreign boyfriend. Some of theme don have big incoming, I am sure, but I also know one who dating foreign man who pay for here trips, clothes etc

          • OM

            You see, they are also very smart and cheeky. That’s bloody dangerous combination… thus my advice – stay away. Otherwise, if you do not posses advance skills of their game it might lead you to very uncertain and even dangerous situations.

  • Furcloth

    Funny thing, I entered the search terms “couchsurfing” and “abuse”, and this si where I ended up. Apt, don’t you think?

    • Maverick

      Hehe. Funny because the word “abuse” is being used in a completely different context. Search it in the post and you’ll see.

      • Furcloth

        This may come as a shock to you, but the context is of zero (as in no) interest to me.

        • Andy

          If it’s of zero interest to you, why leave a message? Why not act like someone who is disinterested and just leave?

  • http://www.grcka-letovanje.org/ Grcka Letovanje

    15 days ago I bang one very nice girl from CS. I did not host her, but she invited me to going out on drink. The next day she sent me message she told had a nice time with me and invite me to go out again. She stayed at my city 6 days and the last evening she asked me can she sleep at my apartment….What happened at my place you can imagine. :)

    • Maverick

      That’s the thing — once you have a nice bang, that chick is permanently added to your sex rolodex. So not only do you have a place to stay, but pussy as well. I have one over in Brazil that messages me from time to time to see when I’ll come back.

      • Grcka Letovanje

        Yes, it is true. With this one we keep in touch and we agreed yesterday to meet again somewhere in Europe next month.

  • Absintheminded

    Haha, never thought of CS that way… thought it was just a way for women to travel for free. I will definitely.. investigate this.

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  • Maverick
  • Couchsurfing Female

    Guys like you are the reason this site has degenerated in recent years. I’ve got over a hundred references & have surfed in over a dozen countries, but have had to be very careful to filter out both surfers & hosts to avoid this sort of manipulation. It’s gotten to the point where I’ll mostly only agree to host fellow women, gay men, & couples – it’s hard to tell who’s trustworthy, out there, & who’s looking to exploit a site whose intention is very different.

    It would be nice if CS had a section called “Looking For a Piece” so that guys like you could at least be transparent about your intentions…then, though, I guess you couldn’t lure & coerce unsuspecting, impressionable women.

    Your borderline-rapist mentality is disappointing, but I wish you’d at least stick to online dating sites, where we expect that sort of agenda.

    • Maverick

      Your naiveté is adorable.

      “avoid this sort of manipulation.”

      hah

      “Your borderline-rapist mentality is disappointing”

      did you learn that term in your women’s studies class?

  • http://www.grcka-letovanje.org/ Grcka Letovanje

    @Couchsurfing Female

    If you think only man on CS do it, I am wondering with who man on do it. No less than 15% of girls on CS had sexual expireince with couchsurfers. If they have not had it, it is not because they dont want, it is because they have net meet couchsurfer who attracted them. Be honest and say us have you ever kiss goy you met on CS?

  • Anne van Rossum

    If you’re so great with girls, why are you so desperate that you want to misuse a hosting service to get laid? I am not against having sex with someone who you met via couchsurfing, but I hope that there’s more that interests you in life. Meeting interesting people is already difficult enough!

  • CSGirl

    You’re a creep.
    I have to agree with Couchsurfing female here, losers like you are the reason this great initiative is turning into yet another place where girls have to watch their back.
    And why honest guys are having a hard time getting hosted.

    • The Theorist

      you sound like a typical american girl. treat guys with contempt and then wonders why no one hits on you.

  • Yet another couchsurfing girl

    You make me sick.

    I just moved to a new country myself, and intended to use couchsurfing to make new friends, to get to know interesting people and people that are interested in cultural exchange. All I’ve gotten is guys hitting on me. Sad how a site with such beautiful intentions gets ruined by guys that only think with their dick.

    • Maverick

      And they’re all doing this because they read this guide. Seems legit.

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  • Rojo

    Very interesting article. I feel quite amused that straight guys have to work so hard to get laid; in comparison for gay travellers, CS is a very easy first-night lay, and your cum-soaked towels are optional.
    Oh well but you people get equal status in society… sigh!

  • Gabriel

    Dear Cuchsurfers,
    Let’s make love not war.
    I believe we’re all somehow missing the point here, “Couchsurfing is an amazing site”. this is a recurrent statement to which we all righteously agree and moreover hear from both, female and male Couchsurfers. I truely believe it is a wonderful site precisely because in its core this site is designed to englobe all aspects of the interaction between human beings. It combines, in all essentials, a vast array of collective assets created from the very power of the interaction between two people regardless of their gender or nationality. I have been a member of Couchsurfing for about ten years and have witnessed myself an incredible amount of jaw-dropping situations that would knock you off your chair arising from this fundamental contact; starting from surrealistic soap opera-like stories between a host and a guest to beautiful and meaningful romantic relationships happening to what now are couples but who were once just that, random hosts and guests; not to mention of course all kinds of kinky sexual, one night stand type of stories and some other argumentative/intellectual and even downright crazy ones.

    Couchsurfing is amazing too because it puts to the test your social skills big time, it shows you in your own face your virtues and values and your weak points when dealing with people from different nationalities, ages and genders. It also reflects what your real language skills are and it opens amazingly your mind for it surely makes you marvel at the diversity of the human race; for instance, it gives you an idea of what other fellow citizens do for a living, what their professions are like and what their family situation is like as well; it also gives you a first-hand idea of what is like to live in their home country. In other words, it opens the world to you.
    Nevertheless, It amazes me to hear every now and then how some specimen of the female gender complain constantly about “warped guys” misusing the site to the point of killing it, in other words, using it exclusively to get sexual favours from allegedly poor-naive-female-guests in exchange of a wretched place to sleep. The reason why I’m often so astonished at such statement lays in the fact that to my liking there is without a doubt too much blatant hypocrisy therein and a tendency to see oneself as being victimized altogether. The very fact that a site deals with human relations gives cause for romantic encounters to happen. It is an unavoidable fact, it can happen as it happens elsewhere in situations where men and women eventually do meet. Now, I’m not saying there aren’t real freaks out there, I’ve met some myself, but Let’s face it, men and women are attracted to each other, if you ask me, I would say it’s a pretty cool biological feature that we have. How you use the this site is up to you, I personally have had great long-lasting friendships to this day coming from this site as well as dozens of more let’s say “intimate encounters” with some female guests. I will not hide any of this because in my opinion it would simply be nonsensical to do so. It would mean I am ashamed of being a human being, it could even be worse!, it would mean I am ashamed of the fact that I am alive! This pseudo-religious pathetic ingrown misconception of feminism and all these fears and frustrations have caused too much damage and confusion in the mindset of the modern western female. I have heard mind-blowing declarations from so many female guests in so many different occasions (usually after having spent a few days together and having achieved a more solid bond of trust) that they indeed also wish and sometimes even pursue an interesting encounter with an exotic foreign host when they travel abroad, well guess what? I wasn’t petrified at this “horrendous discovery” for it’s just natural, it can be well explained in Anthropology. Women also need to have that type of attention from men, BUT! performed in a very different way. Now, here’s where our two main characters starring the movie “Couchsurfing” play their roles, in other words, this is where the male character, “the host”, and the female character, “the guest”, play the game of romance and flirting that may or may not end in sexual intercourse. First and most importantly – I want to clarify that I only speak from experience- girls/women tend to seek primarily romance rather than what would be classified for them as just “meaningless sex”. This, however, does not mean that they don’t have their own sexual needs to be fulfilled but that rather, at least in most cases, they need more from men than just their genitalia in order to accomplish their fantasies, in other words, they certainly need romance. Women that aren’t too naive understand very well that the fairy tale of the kight in shining armour is sadly…jut that, a fairy tale, and are therefore more open to seek real men in the real world. When I say “real men” I just mean that, the plain sense of the phrase, a dude that has good and positive things to offer but who may lack some others. I think Maverick is right in most of his remarks and observations, although it is clear that his statements may be too straight-to-the-point and may sometimes even “lack that veil of secrecy” requiered from a woman’s point of view, but I guess as these comments are mainly, if not exclusively, addressed to other men, they’re just plain awesome. We have to bear in mind that women are often denied the possibility of expressing themselves openly regarding sexual matters, they are judged and deprived of having a freer point of view and most importantly they lack the brutal force of men. It is our duty as real men to provide these beauties sex with the best of manners as real gentlemen would.

  • Chris

    I hope lots of girls bang you – on the head or in the nuts preferably. I CouchSurf and when guys who seemed nice try to paw me I get the hell out of there. But there are some very low caliber people on CS. As I tell others, discernment is very necessary. And hosts give me their keys all the time. Some I’ve gone back and stayed for weeks

    • http://www.boytoystory.com Boy Toy

      Well, well, well.. Seems like just another unattractive feminist :D

      @Maverick: Awesome post, thanks for sharing. I have actually been considering this method, and I even signed up for a CS profile, but I never filled it out. I might consider to do this in the summer here in Copenhagen! Thanks man! :D

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  • some non predatorial dude

    Wow talk about a whole lot of misogynistic behaviour there… sounds like you’re way gone into your fantasy-world of sexual predation. But yeah, we’ll take that as for what it is: fiction as it is the only humane way of not being disgusted.

  • Hugo del Puerto

    My flatmate is sometimes fucking his couchsurf girls.
    I prefer to host guys. How does these things work with guys?
    I tried to get them drunk, but they are then too drunk to have sex with.

  • majuro

    how difficult is actually to get a couch?!!i ear actually in some cities of europe its almost impossible,how come?why so many people dont even fill up their profils or even not even look the messages?or are just interest when they actually go travel

  • RomanGuy

    All you wrote is very true my friend… I just read your blog post and it was like looking in a mirror. It’s about 3 years I’m hosting solo-girls on CouchSurfing (in Rome) and I banged more than 20 girls and kissed many more… It’s just a game, the “love game” ! :) And the best part is that most of the girls are really happy after!

    • Jason
      • RomanGuy

        Unfortunately he’s not me! :P There’re plenty of Roman guys doing the same game in Rome, but the most important thing is to respect the girls and never force them to do anything they don’t want to do. I like how the guy in the link you posted handled the situation. I think it’s the best way.

        But now I think I’m going to host some Polish grils this summer amongs the Russians! :D :D

        • Rebel07

          Interesting site! I think I have to send him my crazy CS story when I hosted a cute Swedish girl in Lisbon, Portugal.

          Goddamn, those Scandinavians will do anything when they leave their frozen countries!

  • Alfons

    Well done Maverick!
    This do is a nice article about CS and what men want from it.
    Suppose you are telling the truth and don’t write fictions.
    Me too I had the idea 2 years ago to make CS my platform for meeting foreign girls and dating and maybe romance and maybe sex.
    So far with medium succeeds. Have hosted 12 normal and cute looking girls. Had good time with 10 of them. Stay in touch with 5 of them. Had romantic feeling with 4 of them. And actually had a longer relationship with one of them.
    What means, from 12 girls there was one to sleep with, after she became my girlfriend.
    What is different from your success rate in getting laid.
    Once a chick from Mexico was also very cute and I gave her head-massage before sleeping, because she had a badly cough, but I did not dare to move on and let my hands go down her body.
    As you said, there is not much space for errors if you afraid a negative reference.
    Afterwards, today, I am sure she was also willing to experience a German lover that night… But she did not grab my face to kiss me, so I also did not make the first step.

    Move on guys. Feminists should look for female hosts if they can find or look for married hosts with family, who are just hosting without ulterior motives.
    We don’t rape. We don’t even push. So everything is in the woman’s control. So it is fine.
    And don’t forget, we offer a free place, clean, warm and tidy, including towels and WLAN and we spend time and money for the guest.

  • Ascilto

    Hi I joined couchsurfing 4 moths ago, I’m italian and I live in florence, and I fucked 13 girls that i hosted (i hosted 17) and another 10 girls by still through couchsurfing. But i think your guide is wrong, I never take girls out, I just cook for them and I simply look at them as “oh plese don’t tell me that we need to fuck”,(i have to admitt that i’m ivery handsome and I’ve got a natural talent with girls) and especially about the references the more they have the less they think couchsurfing is for sex…

    • Lucky

      You are lucky Ascilto becouse you live in Itally and touristic place and a lot of girls come there. From my expirience I am sure majority of girls you fucked were from Eastern Eurepe.

  • Anonymous

    I am the guy also known as the sweater from the book called “The Game” . . . after several bad relationship experiences I have turned to meeting and dating younger women. I meet them at parties and on couch surfing. I find that its a great way to meet and have fun and more with girls from all over the world without leaving your home. I can’t put a number on it but have had more success with girls on CS in 4 months than in my first 45 years of my life :) This is NOT just because of CS but also who I have become. Fun, confident and not needy or creepy. I am just a bad boy who lets the girls know that I am there to have fun and if they stay then I am going to try and seduce them . . . and they are going to enjoy every minute. Most girls are 20-35 years younger than me, but this is not a problem if you are cool and fun . . . and hot like me ha ha that was a joke. i am a bald average looking guy, but I do keep reasonably fit. You don’t want to be old and fat and ugly if you can help it!!!

  • Tommy

    This post is like suggesting rape. You need additional details.

    I always find that engaging to casual sex using CS is diminishing the value of CS. There are places explicitly doing that. Otherwise, you can create a CS Group “Casual sex”, but please if you are a boy and host a girl and ask her for sex when it was not explicitly written before she arrives in your territory, that is rape!

    • Maverick

      Don’t be an idiot.

      There’s nothing in this article that even remotely suggests non-consensual sex between a man and a woman.

      • CanadianGal

        You suggested intoxicating the girl with alcohol as means of seducing the girl. Alcohol impairs judgement, reducing the chances the sexual encounter will be consensual. What’s worse is that this girl is alone and vulnerable in a strange country and is far less likely to report any sexual assault to authorities.

  • John

    Hey man. This is a good article and something I’ve considered doing (unfortunately, I didn’t live in a place that people actually want to go until now lol).

    I noticed that on CS, there’s a new section where people post their travel plans and they get invited placed. Obviously, the hot girls already have the most invites. Do you think that this would change anything from your game plan listed above? I would think that “inviting” them seems lame, but also might lead to them going with another guy over you.

  • Muushing dogs

    I confirm, I agree, what u ve wrote is what I ve lived before this website became some kind of American hegemony, without forgetting the unmissable binary system in place in the US, the famous : winner/loser, winner because u were born at the right place in the right family, loser if you are not their norm of wining (winning what ? US$ of course !!!)

    So yes let’s fuck these C.S skanks !

  • Fiana

    You’re a piece of shit you know that? Instead of saying how to meet a girl, you say how to fuck a “chick”. You’re not being a nice host when your only mission is to “fuck a chick”. I really feel sorry for any girl that has to put up with you.