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8 Signs Of A Naughty CouchSurfer Girl

The more chicks I hosted, the better I was able to handpick those who wanted to have sex instead of those who merely wanted to use my place as a free motel for the night.

Although most of the time I singled them out purely using my gut by quickly scanning their profiles, I decided to see if there were indeed common factors in the profiles of the chicks I banged.

Last night I finally sat down and did an exhaustive study of the profiles of my conquests.

Here’s what I discovered:

1. She has mostly male friends

This is one of the obvious ones. If her profile shows that she has lots of male friends compared to female friends, that’s a strong sign she prefers to be hosted by men. Take a guess why.

Furthermore, the closer she’s to her “male friends” (as shown by “relationship type”), the greater the chance they’re way, way more than just friends. An easy way to see which “friends” got their beak wet is to look for strong relationship types such as “best friend” or “close friend.”

2. She “surfs” for an extended amount of time

A typical couchsurfer stays on average between 1-3 days. If some chick is spending a week or more at some guy’s place, you can bet she’s not spending those days exploring museums and art galleries. And guys are not shy about making this known, either. Look for raves in the references such as “she stayed for a whole 9 days and it was great!!”

3. She only travels to exotic locales

If her profile is filled with mostly guys from exotic locales such as Brazil, Jamaica, Italy, and an assortment of Latin countries, then you can bet she’s not doing for humanitarian reasons.
Bonus: she has a huge animated “I Love [insert your country]” banner on her profile.

4. Pictures are mostly of her and various male hosts

Profile pictures accurately represent the types of people she’s meeting and likes. Most chicks have an assortment of pictures: group shots of couchsurfing meetings, various activities and solo shots.

On the other hand, if a girl’s only pictures are with single males that hosted her, you can be sure she was fond of the host because he furnished her with some hard dick for the duration of her stay.

5. Her male references are filled with raves, smileys and exclamation marks

I wouldn’t leave some random girl an overly glowing reference unless she did something for me, such as giving me mind-blowing blowjobs or rocking my world night after night. Check her references, especially from the European “sex circuit” countries such as France, Spain, and Italy (where men don’t host other men).

6. She’s from France, Finland or Poland

While some nationalities are easier than others, there was something about these countries manufacturing girls that are almost always guaranteed lays. French girls are some of the toughest to game in France, but when overseas — like shooting fish in a barrel.

Finnish girls only travel for sex, especially to Latin America and Southern Europe. A friend and I banged a Finnish couchsurfer who proceeded sleep with every Brazilian guy she met, even attempting to bring some back to our place.

Polish women, the least likely of the three to travel, require a more protracted seduction strategy, but with enough perseverance, sex was to be had — especially if you’re of Latin origin.

I’m still stumped by the naughty French girls. They won’t come near you on the grand boulevards of Paris but find them in dirty narrow alleys of Latin America and they’ll fuck you so fast it’ll make your head spin. Liberté, Égalité, Fraternité!

7. She has affinity for (exotic) foreign languages.

A woman will learn a language for the exact same reason that a guy would: exotic sex. Furthermore, the level that she knows the language, as shown on her profile (e.g., beginner, intermediate or expert), roughly corresponds to how many foreign-speaking penises she rode.

I’ve found that most Polish girls have affinity for Spanish, while Russian girls like Italian, which is an accurate portrayal of their general preference for men.

My Mexican buddy hit the jackpot when he hosted a petite Polish girl who spoke fluent Spanish. One can be pretty sure she didn’t attain such high language proficiency in the classroom; a likelier scenario is that she was either on her knees while giving numerous blowjobs or facedown while being duly pummeled from behind.

8. She admits that she likes having sex with her hosts.

Nothing much to add here, but let me know if you need further clarification as to what to do with these types of women.

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97 Comments

  1. i’d bang all of them except the second from the left. ahhh, scratch that. i’d even bang the ugly one after few beers.

    how about you?

  2. CouchSurfing… Shouldn’t it be called BedSurfing or SexSurfing by now?

    I bet soon girls will be coming to your place with a contract in hand that by signing, you’ll be promising to abstain from all sexual relations. I think it’s only a matter of time.

  3. Nice article. Be careful that you don’t generalize too much caracteristics of a few experiences to a whole population.

    Normally you need a sample of 1000 before you can come to general conclusions.

  4. I’d bang the two on the sides.

    Btw, nice article.

  5. Maverick

    February 2, 2013 at 10:39 am

    It really depends; Polish and Russians are pretty different. Polish are more Westernized, etc. The Polish girls I met traveling I used my “nice guy” game but with Russians I use my “Russian game.”

    • Maverick

      February 3, 2013 at 4:52 pm

      The ones I’ve banged showed no prejudice. One Polish girl in Brazil (who spoke fluent Portuguese) nicknamed me “O Ruso.” (in an endearing way). I also like to also play an American card, and I even tried pretending to be Brazilian once or twice.

    • Maverick You are disgusting. Will block Sovereign Man in my e-mail.The females that you demean have more class in their big toe than you have. You sound like an ignorant hillbilly. No sophistication whatsoever!!!!

    • What do you mean by “Russian game”?

  6. Classic post! I never even considered Couch Surfing as a “sex option” before I read this, i did a top 10 ways to get sex on your travels and left it out!!: http://dontstopliving.net/10-ways-to-get-sex-when-you-travel/ I love your site by the way 😉 Jonny

    • HAHAHAHAAHAH look at this guy’s mug FFS no wonder he has to lure unsuspecting girls from CS because he couldn’t possibly find a decent girl in real life. Jesus Fucking Christ.

  7. My favorite quote of all time is be George Bernard Shaw:
    “Like all young men, we greatly exaggerate the difference between one young womnan and another.”
    Meaning as it applies here: all these women in the above picture are the same. With the lights out, I’d bet we’d not be able to tell the differnce between any of them. They all have the same body type, and I bet all have the same hopes and dreams and feelings. And if we were forced to spend an entire life with each of them (if we had, say, multiple lives to live), we’d find that there is no discenable difference between any of them. Sad really. They’re all ape based lifeforms with the same brains in their heads. Sad really, and humiliating. G. B. Shaw married after 50, after a long life of banging various women (let’s call them she monkeys), and made a point of bragging at the end of his life that he and his wife (she was a little older than he) never had sex ever–didn’t have sex even on his wedding night! Now that’s my kind of marriage. Shaw knew he was married to an ape based lifeform and wasn’t going to humiliate himself any further. Sure, he probably knew that he was an ape base lifeform too, but wasn’t goin to make the matter any worse! Sex to Shaw, I imagine, was like taking a shit. Sure, it feels great, but let’s not get too proud about it. We do it beacuse if we didn’t, we feel shitty bodily and probably go insane. Sad to feel compelled to do the “dirty deed” (both shitting and having sex), but heaven help us if we don’t do it.

    Shaw probably wore the skin over his dick having sex when he was younger, but he wasn’t going for any of that silliness after he got older! Hell no! He couldn’t wait to retire the cock! That should be our goal too. Wear the skin off our dicks while we’re young and then retire the cock. Can I get an Amen brothers?! AMEN!

    • Well, YOU are definitely merely an ape-based life-form, and obviously one who has never even had good sex! Amazing you are reading here, dolt.

  8. Man, I hosted a Finnish girl once. She was a tall and cute brunette. We messaged back and forth a bit in the week before she got here. She seemed very cool and social over email. When she got here, god damn she was the most boring person I ever hosted. She was polite, but so cold, stiff and talkative that I could penetrate her shell of reservedness. She simply would not talk when we went out. Even after getting a few drinks in her she still had me doing 90% of the conversation. Only on the third day did she even start to warm up just a little bit. But by then she was leaving and it was too late. Maybe her reserve had to do with her being from a smaller town in Finland rather than Helsinki. Roosh wrote about the cold and shy personality of Icelandic girls and her personality fit exactly Roosh’s description. Basically no warmth, very reserved and non-flirty unless they are drunk off their asses.

    Btw guys, CS doesn’t seem to be of much use anymore. I used to get host requests constantly, now I get like one a month, usually from some ugly chic. Every since they started that open couch request thing and made all those changes on the site, it fucked everything up. Plus there’s a lot more freeloaders on there now.

    • I wholeheartedly agree with how CS has gone to shit in the past couple of years. Now it’s like FB in that you’re competing with so many other dudes for the chick’s attention. And, when you do get a request (or see one on the listings), they’re usually cut and paste and lacking any kind of warm. Not to mention how some of the girls have atrocious English skills.

      As for the cold and distant girls, I have one about an American girl I hosted a while ago. From Berkeley, she was in the area for a couple of interviews for modeling gigs. She was in what you can call “costume” modeling — mostly for sci-fi and gaming type stuff. She also did some nude modeling, and showed me her pics on Model Mayhem when she arrived. That, however, in no way said that she was DTF.

      Like with your Finnish girl, this Berkeley chick didn’t hold up her end of the conversation. When we were out walking from one place to another (me playing tour guide), she barely threw out anything to keep the conversation going. Now, I’m a bit of a reserved fellow myself, but when someone else does this to me, I feel unnerved and a bit on the defensive. Not to mention annoyed over time. Eventually, I got her to open up the one day about her modeling work and what she was doing out in Berkeley, and she talked non-stop for 15 minutes (with a little bit of help). Then she clammed up for the rest of the day, only giving short-sentence responses to my questions.

      Not the worst chick I’ve ever hosted, but damn near the most challenging.

  9. I am subcontinent Asian,and i live in Indonesia few years. am here also an active CS.
    i got polish girl as surfer. Literally she was not that stereo type polish.Because she travelled lot.We talked almost all night with bear… many many topics…

    • Because really, it isn’t that every single Polish is willing to have sex with any Italian, French or Latino guy all over the world. Like someone said above, this could be too small sample to make generalisation 😉

  10. Oh my. Do you know that feeling, when you watch a movie and a character is so pathetic, that you feel ashamed and sorry for him and you’re just waiting for a disaster? Well, this is what it feels like to read your blog.
    A desperation written with golden letters on a guy’s forehead is such a huge turn off, that I really suppose that all those stories are mostly talking not doing. “I play my American card”. Lol. Because yeah, being American makes your dick 10 cms longer. I bet you’re playing your “Italian card” more. Like Italian Mastercard, to pay for inflatable dolls, the closest you can get to get laid, like all those poor Italians, who talk about sex so much, because that’s the only thing left, since Italian women are so conservative.

    • Oh, the amount of hypocrisy in this world!!! The guy who wrote the above article simply speaks out of his empiric experience, no more no less…
      While not attempting to generalise women’s behaviour or traits of certain nationalities, I must admit the guy has got it all pretty much spot-on!
      Yeah, you might be a decent girl and resent any of the above statements concerning the fairer sex, but it’s the TRUTH whether you like it or not!..
      Rather than blaming the man who dared express his honest opinion, blame our society that has chained and laid the guilt trip on female sexuality for thousands of years…

  11. As i m French, I just confirm what you said about untouchables gals in France ( u look at em they just dodge you), but overseas they behave like little sluts eager for some torrid and hot sex (they feel less guilty when faraway from home, no one to judge her behavior).
    But according to my experience, Latinas are way hotter and a spank or a pulling hairs in doggy-style won’t bother em.
    French girls look uptight from outside, once in your bed the fluid drips but don’t expect an oral French lesson (it is not always included in our country).

  12. I think Japanese women take the record for the fastest pants dropping ‘record’!

  13. Never invite me to CS at yours! Anyone else reading this and feeling really sad about it, don’t worry, there are plenty of CSers out there who merely want to meet new people, be hospitable and sometimes find a safe place to stay.

    Fair enough if some people want to use the site for sex, but I’ve heard of other sites dedicated to that kind of thing – probably more reliable.

    Maybe CS should have a sex / no sex option on profiles, but it seems a bit demeaning.

  14. Well, people like you are the reason I won’t use CS

  15. I’ve monitored CS for 2 years without ever hosting anyone. Because IMHO, all the chix that want to stay are ugly or old.

  16. I guess this happens, this generalisation of ‘easy woman’.
    Sure there will be woman that enjoy the casual sex just like the man does. Does not feel nice as a woman to read about the ‘bangs, hunts, cards and blowjobs’

    I have been an active host and surfer for many many years, have seen in change over the years, but believe me girls. You can read this article and raise questions at couchsurfing, but his ‘findings’ are not a study. There may be some truth in it, but the people that want to use couchsurfing for what it’s meant for.. will read their profile.. and know that neither he, nor I, would enjoy being either host or surfer, so we skip and move onto people that want to meet me, and not my ‘pretty face for an easy lay’

    The only reason I read all of this and decided to write it is.. If you find the women that enjoy the casual romance you share.. keep the word casual and romance together.. and show a little bit of dignity and respect..

  17. Oh my gosh. You are so offensive here, seriously….

    You know why a girl might have a ton of male friends or hosts on CS? BECAUSE ONLY MALES SEEM TO OFFER A COUCH. I have NEVER had a woman reply to my requests. Never. And the only couch surfers I’ve ever hosted have been men, because I never got requests from females (at least when I was home and able to host).

    And you know why I’m learning French? Because I freaking like the language.

    And you know why I stay in a place for more than 2 nights? Because what on earth are you going to see in 3 days? Come on. And who wants to pack up every 3 days to couch hop, either?

    Do you understand how awkward and uncomfortable it gets when you’re staying with a host for a week and they start hitting on you? You’re in a country where you don’t know anyone and may not be able to find another place to stay for the rest of your trip, and this dude decides to make you uncomfortable every time you’re alone together.

    How about stop trying to take advantage of women while they’re traveling? Yeah, we may get carried away with the excitement of a new place and new people, but you can still be a decent guy instead of seeing your guests as free prostitutes.

    • Shut up, Mr. “I can’t get some” !

    • Wow, you’re about the only sane person here.

      Maverick, it’s ok to have sex with surfers, but the way you describe women here as being nothing more than sex objects is very disrespectful. I would suggest that every lady that wants to surf your couch should read this blog post before considering coming over 🙂

      • Amen. Make sure to post a link to this blog post high on your CS profile, please… I’d hate to accidentally stay with you.

        • this guy is not on couchsurfing this guy is just a writer he just does that for money

        • Heh what’s wrong with having sex and enjoy your body and relieve stress while traveling ? I don’t know what objectifying of women means ? After all sex is a mutual relationship both parties enjoy ( or third party in a threesome 🙂 ) women like men need sex . When i travel as i eat and drink i like to bang everyday . Lets enjoy it not depress it . I can ask any girl to fuck and if they consent lets do it !

      • Why is it so “disrespectful” to say the truth? 🙂

      • Men love to project their dirty fantasies onto women. It’s quite common. They would rather believe that a woman staring at them wants to sleep with them, than she doesn’t see him at all because she is lost in thought and happens to gaze at his direction. Or that she has many male friends or prefers male hosts simply because she’s had bad experiences with more than one woman, like maybe having her clothes or makeup stolen by a female host. I guess it’s a lot easier to project fantasies than to actually converse with a woman about her own point of view, because that involves imagining a totally different human experience, and empathy — stretches for the brain and heart.

  18. How is he taking advantage of females? Some women, by the construct of their nature , are just naturally easy!
    Some women are worse than men.

  19. Can I add you as a friend on my couchsurfing profile?

  20. Looks like you’ve got a lot of closet feminists mad at you, Maverick.

    Stay strong and don’t go all Matt Taylor on us.

  21. We ALL are ape-based forms, whether you like it or not, that’s the thing! We are nothing but two-legged mammals walking around a tiny rock hurling itself through the Universe.
    Morals is a very flexible concept, things we believed and worshipped two hundred years ago no longer hold place another two hundred years from now.
    Bet the Maverick has had some of the best sex around, went online to share his experience and ended up having all this resentful stuff poured on him just because some people got their underwear tied up in a knot so to speak… 🙂

    • It’s been eons since we were apes, and everything seems to have evolved except for yours and the writer of this articles brains George.

  22. OMG you couldnt sound stupider if you tried!! 😀 you Would learn a language merely to have exotic sex? And you think that’s why girls do too??! Did you grow up in a barrel or something? How can you sound so smallminded and uneducated? Plus the way you talk about girls, cultures and nationalities is disgusting. I’m a Finnish girl and You can prove your idiotic theory by learning finnish! Just a heads up, its super hard and it might take a moron like you a lifetime, but hey, what Wouldnt you do just to have sex! Pathetic. I Would never ever sleep with you, yuck.

    • You really got your knickers twisted over this article! Maybe because it hit the spot too well 😉
      Having lived in Helsinki for about 7 years, I can say Finnish women are shockingly easy!.. I mean you could pull a girl to your place after a 10-second conversation on a street on any night, the only criteria being you’ve got to have at least a bottle of Koskenkorva vodka at home, as sad as it is… Then you go to Barcelona or Berlin, and the first chick to hit on you or your mate or the most drunk one puking her guts out on a street at 1am is likely to be a Finnish one, even though there are only like 5 million Finns on this planet. While you might be a decent girl yourself and willing to stand up for your country’s reputation, my empirical evidence over 7 years is what it is.
      Instead of being full of puritan anger, save your energy and accept the truth as painful as it is. And what is wrong with girls sleeping willingly with the guy who hosts them? Se ei ole keneltä pois…

  23. This is disgusting and you’re pathetic. Congrats on not being able to talk to women in person, and having to use an Internet site that was made to HELP people, to get women back to your place. Without it, you’d be riding your own hand. Try going out and meeting someone without hiding behind a computer and see if you’d get the same results.

    This “study” of yours is obscene and ridiculous. You can’t just do some bullshit research and call it a study. You’re the problem with the world today. Taking a positive, helpful idea and turning it into smut. I can’t believe this article hasn’t been taken down yet. You’re disgusting, and any girl who sleeps with you should really
    re-evaluate her decisions.

    • Oh, the amount of hypocrisy in this world!!!
      Maverick simply speaks out of his experience, that is all… I bet he did not set out to prove some premeditated theory, he just happened to be getting laid via CS for years and later decided to summarise and share this info with others… FYI, that is called EMPIRICAL evidence…
      Yeah, you might be a decent girl and resent any of the above statements concerning the fairer sex, but it’s the TRUTH whether you like it or not!.. And I am sure, every single one of those girls who slept with their CS host did so because they wanted to. And what’s the harm in two people having casual consensual sex?
      Rather than blaming the man who only dared express his honest opinion, blame our society that has chained and laid the guilt trip on female sexuality for thousands of years…

  24. frenchfinnishpolish

    November 22, 2014 at 9:22 pm

    wow, what a man of high value you are, can’t wait read to read your book.

  25. The number 1 sign of a firstclass demented little boy: this article.

  26. Really..! Hahaa..man you are so wrong..in multitudes of ways, I’m from Finland and would never fuck any dirty guy just because I could CS at his place..! Unless you and your friend probably drugged her and just did it without any dignity.. One day some big Georgian guy will hopefully take you from behind while you find yourself deserted in some of those little alleyways you talk about.. Oh, but excuse me, you don’t seem like the kind of guy who even has enough courage to travel solo.
    And what made me laugh the most, is after all this misogynistic rant you dare to say something about a man with High Value, Confidence etc.. Bitch please.. You must be the most unconfident man in the world since it seems you just want to hunt for girls through CS (one of the most pathetic things a man can do btw) and talk about thai girls and girls from Balkan, who you are probably just trying to buy, because you’re not man enough to get a real woman in a relationship with you. For obvious reasons, you seem like a mommys boy, fucking spoiled brat and intolerable human being. Probably you are also a motherfucker and also fucking with your cousins and sisters (although you probably dont have one, since you would respect girls more) too if you just catch them sleeping at your apartment or something..
    Sick Motherfucker, wake up!

  27. YOU ARE SO STUPID !!!

  28. congratulations on ruining couchsurfing for me. Now every time I want to send a couch request I think what if the host has a similar mentally to you. I’m like sad now. other than that, funny article.

  29. I have hosted some women at my flat and I have been very respectful with them, but I have to admit that some of them resulted me really interesting or/and attractive.
    I believe it’s like the normal life, you can feel attraction for someone in a bar, job, school, etc… overall if you spend a lot of time with them, and casual sex or even love can arise.
    However I think it’s important to understand that most of them are just traveling (more if they are women) and that’s the idea of couchsurfing.
    I could suggest be more communicative and you can say (directly or indirectly) that you are not looking for “any kind of relationship”, it’s easy to say but difficult to ask.

  30. Finnish and angry

    March 6, 2015 at 3:51 pm

    Oh.my.god. You seriously think that women only learn languages because of men? You are disgusting asshole. You ruined CS from me before I even had a change to try it.

  31. As a Finnish man I must agree. Please finnchisk, dont be so butthurt. There are multitude of statistics that shows finnish girls are the easiest IF you are a guy from an exotic coutry.

  32. To all the Finnish people here: se koira älähtää, johon kalikka kalahtaa.

  33. Thanks for the stereotype

    March 7, 2015 at 4:18 pm

    I can’t even.

    One more reason to not send host request to any guy. (I’m Finnish girl.) It’s already awkward how some guys think it’s some kind of dating site and just don’t get it.

  34. Thank you for telling this shit to everybody! It’s nice to know that all Finnish women travel ONLY for sex as a world traveller and finnish woman I’m not proud about that shit you wrote and it ain’t all truth. Example I keep traveling for seeing new landscapes taking photographs and I even travel with my family. So I must be very different one huh. And you think women only learn languages for sex, well that’s very desperate thing to do if somebody does that but I’ve never met anybody who does that. I’ve been in Mediterranean countries only for holidays with my family and in many other countries I’ve visited also and it’s nothing strange only your mind is strange. And I even know finnish women who were dating and married foreigners but not any of them learned any language for man, many of them didn’t try to learn language. If the person want to learn something she will do it for herself, not just for some contacts. And if the person travel she may travel for other reasons.than sex

      • As Finnish Women; I’m proud; I think that this article is shit; totally shit; its every individual personal circumtances;

        I travelled alone many countries but never had sex with anyone.

        I hosted a lot of people from different continent; and never had sex with them except my one guest.

        he has very wonderful body, I really appreciate and there were some chemistry between us; so I had the sex of my life very wonderful very fancinating; I never had that experience before; Thank you CS;

  35. Your shy, reserved and cold Finnish girl

    March 8, 2015 at 4:06 pm

    Well, reading your post means that if the women in cs are so ‘easy’, the men must be too. Hmm.., why no women write about easy men? Who is the one living in 19th century here? I am pretty happy I have picked my cs hosts so carefully I didn’t have such a male to look at me like an object.

  36. After all you are a pity guy who “roams the world and seduces women and then eloquently writes about his experiences”. I see that you have no respect for women. I am sure you are one of those guys who think they are the god’s gift to women but in the reality the only thing you can do is to receive a bj and fuck behind for a minute leaving the woman unsatisfied. I’m sure you have never scored for the second time. I feel sorry for you. You are not a real man but pathetic one.

  37. A Russian business associate of mine, and myself were in St. Petersburg and to make a long story short, when the girls in any area, building, street, etc… found out I was Italian, they would trip over themselves and each other in excitement and personal interest. It was cute, silly and very welcoming even though I always attract female notoriety, I’ve never experience the almost mob like attention they were lavishing at me, it was celebrity status level, absolutely crazy.

    My Russian friend joked, almost annoyingly, “I should travel with you in my own country more often, because in all of the years I’ve been coming to St. Petersburg I have never seen such a frenzy!” He then tried to ask me if I was sure that I wasn’t famous, as if he was still trying to find any other reason for my newly found popularity ahahaha.

    It was a whirl wind of phone numbers, “travel dates,” and self invitations to guest themselves at my villa in Italy to “meet my family.” This might sound ungrateful on my part, but after the first couple of days on my “Beatles Tour” in Russia, I had to turn off my cell phone, because it would ring and beep all throughout the day, all day long. Later on during this trip, my Russian associate would pretend to be Italian too, and try to piggyback on the warm welcomes and invites, and after I stop laughing at him, I noticed that it was actually elevating his attention as well.

    I love you Russia, although I may be a bit biased 🙂

  38. Maverick I like your blog. I am from Nepal. I have one question: I saw a post few months back from a french girl that she is going to visit my country later this year. I approached her & invite her to join me for some part of journey as our routes were same. After investigation ( she asked girls who gave me reference), she agreed to travel with me. Though she never Sai about this to me, but those girls tell about this that she is afraid of being rape in Nepal. Now she is chatting with me everyday. One day she said that she likes to stay with me in the same room while we travel as being local, I can help her to save money. After reading this article, I search her profile. Though she have reference from both male & females, but every man liked her stay with her. Also this girl likes to party. She is talking about that if she found rain during travelling, she would like to wear bikini around river & will enjoy. So after her proposal to stay in the same room, I am wondering whether she belongs into the same CS girl category or not. She is pretty beautiful. I want to bang her but I am afraid of ‘negative reference ‘ on my profile. This will be my first time to travel with any foreigner girl. So I am not sure whether to take chances or not. Give me some guidance to check her real mind-set.

    • From a woman’s perspective here: please do not ‘investigate her’ and look for external signs of whether or not she will have sex with you or not before even meeting her. Being a ‘party girl’ says nothing about what she will decide / feel comfortable with in other situations. She expects you to literally show her around the country like you said you would, and wants to travel with a man because, like she admitted to your girl friends, she is afraid of being sexually assaulted – THE LAST THING YOU SHOULD DO IS MAKE ANY UNSOLICITED ADVANCES! When you are together, and if you feel like she is giving you signals, talk to her about it and get verbal consent. Please don’t ask advice from some guy on the internet who calls women ‘sluts’ and tries to ‘persuade’ them into sex.

  39. I’m a Brazilian guy and I must say your post is completely retarded and fucked up. Seriously, this kind of shit is destroying Couchsurfing. I can only imagine what happens when a girl stays with you just because she wants a place to spend the night (like most normal people do) and you start hitting on her, making her feel extremely uncomfortable in a foreign country where she doesn’t know anyone else. Also – and you probably don’t know that cause you’re “””American”””– learning a new language is really hard and takes years. If you think getting laid is enough motivation to spend 3 years taking Spanish lessons, that only proves how desperate you are.

    And then, after all the bullshit, you mention your book about “how to become a man of high value”. it’s like a hobo trying to teach people how to become a billionaire… all I can do is laugh

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  41. This guy is such a douche, hahaha. Who talks this way about women on a website with a picture of himself on it. An ugly picture at that. Classy men james, sleep with women and then don’t feel the need to brag about it, let alone write an entire article on a shitty blog with shitty writing saying implementing himself as a mysogynist.
    Fortunately theirs something called sex karma… Of which you have used yours all up with this blog post alone.

  42. You are a disgusting human being. I understand chemistry between hosts and csurfers can happen but I would certainly not want to be hosted by a gross guy like you expecting to have sex because he provide a couch for me. You’re fucking average looking and you don’t understand women, travelling or couchsurfing. Keep away from CS and stay on Tinder or a sex app you asshole!

  43. I don’t understand why people feel the innate urge to have sex with a good-looking person a bad thing? I mean both the article and those who respond to that angrily, are just proving the point that our society that we have created and the so called cultural norms and all other bullshit, only make us all the more hypocritical. We’re mammals at the end of the day and that’s how we’re designed to behave and it’s completely normal. Girls, don’t be mad, it’s ok to have one-night stands and wanting to have one if you find a good-looking guy. And Maverick, I personally like your article, but the way you address them as “sluts” is a bit demeaning. and disrespectful as if they’re subhuman. We’re all human guys, it’s our innate right.

  44. Having been around countries and lived beyond 60 years Maverick is spot on and the reactions by wimmin on the comments are very standard too. I never could figure out why wimmin will turn into sexual predators once the ship was 6 hours out from port and turn into ultra conservatives when the ship was 6 hours before berthing. In fact I find such behaviour, basically, neurotic. Here I am a nice guy can’t get laid or even get a long term gf but just go on 3 day cruise and suddenly I’m beating them off with a locked cabin door. Same as girls you meet in bars who are drunk and all over you, but when they sober up they deny every thing. Then when you hit 50 you can only get the ones that need to be serviced and wined/dined and taken shopping, and they can be any age, from 18 up. Tho’ I don’t agree with Maverick’s strategy, he’s very right in what he says, I know because when I was young,under 50, I was always being seduced which I found quite despicable. Then got scorned for refusing their advances as if it was I that made the move. I live in Asia, in China, and it’s all about how much CNY you can give over. In Vietnam is how much USD$. In Cambodia you only have pay once and then on it’s free and fun and real intimacy. In Thailand if you are young man it’s all served up but older, over 45, you got to pay, pay, pay. Laos is like Cambodia. Taiwan, Taipei is wide open, but every where else is pay, pay, pay. I’m off to retirement in a few years and I’m going to South America. Thank you Maverick and thank you to all the angry women/wimmin posts and the wanker Brazilian man who is defending his territory.

  45. The woman here are so angry and butthurt lmao..
    It sounds like they ugly and they aint gettin’ any lol
    I will still use CS for gettin’ laid and that’s that. Period.
    Hasta la vista

    • Couchsurfer with morals

      July 2, 2016 at 3:43 am

      The women who comment are not simply “butthurt” but yes, angry that we still live in a society where women are treated as objects for sex and not respected.

  46. Female couchsurfer

    May 5, 2016 at 1:08 pm

    This is disgusting. This article and the some comments. Just disgusting.

  47. Couchsurfer with morals

    July 2, 2016 at 3:41 am

    Um…”but with enough perseverance, sex was to be had”
    RAPEY much???
    This article, and you, are disgusting.

  48. You are just a dick sir with no brains, what shit why write it?

  49. I’m a 28 year old guy, only started Couchsurfing this year.
    I’ve been hosted twice, once by a great girl – we became friends, and a great young couple.
    But I’m hosting people quite frequently at my place- people regardless of age and gender.
    It’s a wonderful experience. I had sex with two females I hosted, casually, but I never took any innitiative- they made their move on me, quite strongly. I’m polite, and open, and would NEVER plan sex.

    A friend of mine wants to join CS for possible sex and I strongly advised him not to do it. If you’re on CS to get laid, you are just pathetic and you taint the reputation of a great website (yes, I think it’s great and don’t understand the complainers)

    You really sound like the typical ‘murican college dude from the movies, mr. blogger.

  50. with an average picture, zero friends and zero refrences been trying to host or get hosted by females only, zero luck in 2 years, beat that!!!

  51. And the ppl wonder why nobody likes Americans…

  52. Last year i hosted an Indian girl she had requested to stay for one night, she arrived in the morning we went to beach for few hours then dinner and later she wanted to party, although i was really tired i took her to the club nearby, she kissed me after a drink then said sorry, when i said its alright she was making out with me every opportunity she gets, we got back and what a night it was she kept me awake all night as she wanted an orgazim, next day as i was expecting her to leave she had cancelled her other couch requests and decide to stay back without even asking me, any way i wan happy she stayed for 5 more days making Indian curry for me, we stayed in touch this year she came back with 3 more friends and they just wanted to have sex yes i banged all of them together for 9 days, they even ask if any of my male friends want to join which i was not comfortable of.

    • I also had the same experience with indian women,
      I hosted two female indian friends;
      they were very nice and educated but in night
      I saw them entirely different, one lady who was a bit older than other one seduce her friend(I thought it was her first time to being as lesbo)… and when I caught them the both ladies invited me and I had my first threesome.

  53. I also don’t agree with is articles.

    I met many finnish women, and my thinking for them are very nice and polite.

    Eventhough I had sex with one of my finnish host women, but it was a body chemistry which ended up for that beautiful evening.

    Give the respect to the women;

  54. Dear M, you seem like a smart guy, i m sure you could have found more than just 8 signs. After all, men need all the help they can get.

  55. I hosted a couchsurfer on my podcast who was very happy to say that she hooked up with her host(a doctor) and she liked him http://www.greyjabesi.com/travel/episode-4-sheila-garcia/

  56. You’re completely wrong! I meet Couchsurfing girls that have hosted by many men and have many male references and they didn’t do anything with that men! And mostly french women! And some had do sex with one or two men but only when they really want to do and was because they really loves that man! What happen? There’s a free spirit in the world, you can find a woman for have sex in a bar, at work, in Couchsurfing, but is that her choice and is nothing about that a woman who stays in a men’s flat is a “easy woman”! I think you’re virgin and you see too much porno all the days!

  57. This post is beyond revolting. I can only hope I never have the misfortune of staying with anyone who shares this mindset. I’m sorry for the girls you have hosted, doesn’t seem like you’ve got much to offer in the way of intelligent conversation or emotional depth. The way you describe women demonstrates your lack of respect. Kind of shocking that a so-called traveler could remain so ignorant. I suggest you educate yourself and learn some respect before your little game backfires on you one day. Any woman with half a brain would steer clear of you.

  58. i only host girls that i like and i always try to kiss them and fuck them, every one.

    I have fucked some and others no because they didnt want. But every single one told me all hosts try to kiss them and that only men offer to host them that they are tired of this. Many of the cute girls dont use CS anymore because they are tired of men trying to fuck them.

  59. The article is so sexist! Unbelievable

  60. To be honest, this is disgusting, and I suggest all of
    you to leave the CS community, because tinder is what you are looking for. Holland, Belgium and France still have anazing male hosts, but the moment i stepped into spain and portugal, only 2 men accepted me, and I noticed most men only have female references. This is not oke, you cannot ruin this amazing platform just because you want to stick your dick into something. From now on, I will report people like you aswell. Having sex with eachother is oke, but this is just taking things a bit too far. It goes for women aswell, please leave the community. I have succesfully found a host on tinder, so my conclusion is, gtfo and go use tinder, because that works, and that is the thing you are looking for you fucking cunts

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