Why I Stopped Dating American Women


My last encounter with an American woman was such a soul-crushing and thought-provoking event that I was forced to go back to Europe on a yet another soul-searching mission.

It made me realize how much less I’m able to connect and “get” American girls; where as before I could at least tolerate them.

Over the years I’ve adjusted my interaction with non-American and non-Western women in many ways — ways that I’m afraid could be completely irreversible if I ever need to get into the pants of an American girl.

I Almost Never Tease or “Neg”

With American women it’s always a contest: who has a better job, who makes more money, and who has bigger balls.  If you prove worthy to merit her limited attention span, your reward will be a series of tests designed to elicit self-validation and put you off balance.  One misstep and game’s over.

You’re supposed to bring out this so called “alpha male” persona — the one women have been conditioned over and over by Hollywood and other media to accept as the only one worthy of their time.  If you don’t possess the movie-star looks of Brad Pitt or Tom Cruise, then you better make that up by out-dueling her with witty conversation.  And that’s why teasing and “negging” works so well: you’re finally able to showcase your natural or learned “alpha” traits and win her attraction.

In the rest of the world being a confident man is more than enough to win attraction from most women.  You just have to approach, and the rest naturally falls into pieces.

I compliment more

On one of my most memorable nights in one of Rio de Janeiro’s best nightclubs, I remember approaching a beautiful woman without any games, lines, or gimmicks.  I simply smiled and said that I couldn’t believe a beautiful woman like herself was sitting all alone (she was truly stunning).  She smiled, and feeling flattered responded whether I start a conversation with every woman like that.  Can you imagine a beautiful American woman responding the same way?  She sure wasn’t bitchy and defensive like a typical American woman in similar situation.

Women love compliments they deem as sincere and genuine.  Know the typical Italian behavior towards women?  How they usually go overboard complimenting every woman by calling them “bella donna, beautiful, etc”?  Well, that stuff works very well because non-American women usually respond very warmly to compliments.  Of course, you must fine a fine line between being too stoic and too complimenting, and recalibrate that line for every woman you meet.

Overtime my game has naturally adjusted more to the complimenting and sweet-talking side rather than my dick and combative side.  It has worked pretty well.

I’m More Chivalrous

Many years ago when I went on one of my first dates with an American girl (most of my conquests in US were South American and Eastern European), I behaved the same exact way as I used to with other girls: I opened doors, let her go in first, got the check — except this time my date couldn’t help by blabbing out, “are you going to keep doing this all night?” as if her state of femininity was somehow threatened by my “condescending” behavior.

Being of Eastern European descent, I always felt it was important for men to be chivalrous to a certain extent.  I find it natural behavior to let a woman go in somewhere first, open doors, and help them with putting on coats in winters.  I’ve done it for my mother all my life, and continue to do it with women in certain situation.

A Latvian girl I met in Sweden commented right away how she found it strange when Swedes never opened the door for her.

This is has nothing to do with somehow pedestaling the girl, but more about being a bit more considerate to the weaker sex in non-feminized countries (which includes most of the world).

I’m Willing To Spend Money

Typical American dating rituals involves going to a bar, jumping through a few hoops so that you don’t buy her drink (i.e., I’ll buy the first round, if you buy the next), getting her drunk, then taking her home.

But the expectations are different in other parts of the world.  In Eastern Europe, it’s fully expected for the guy to pay for the girl (at least initially), since he was the one who invited her initially.  In exchange, you get to have a great interaction with a quality woman, instead of some crackberry addict with prepared interview questions or an over-the-hill stalker with family aspirations.  You may pay for dinner and drinks one day, but next time she’ll gladly come over and whip up a great meal for you, or even clean your house wearing nothing but high heels.

One night at a salsa club in Medellin, Colombia, after I bought a bottle of rum, my date quickly fixed me up a drink without me saying a word.  She then asked me if I liked the drink, else she would fix it to my satisfaction.  When was the last time an American girl EVER did something like this to you?

And I’m perfectly OK paying more than my share if I get non-tangible benefits in return.

I Don’t Play Games

When I called an American girl 3 days after our first date to see how she is and possibly schedule a future date, she immediately asked if I’m running some “3 day rule”.  It’s hard to describe in words how pissed off I felt when the first thing someone tells you is not a simple “Hi” or “how are you?” but throw a test your way to see how you would react.

Are you that insecure that you don’t believe some guy actually called you without any premeditated planning whatsoever? That perhaps the world is not a series of planned steps to be executed in perfect sequence?

In most of the world outside US and Canada (e.g., in Brazil, Argentina, Romania and Ukraine), one can invite the girl out the same night after meeting her earlier during the day.  I invited a Brazilian girl I met at a cafe for a drink the same evening, and since she had no plans yet, she gladly agreed.  In America you can forget about this tactic mostly because the girl will think you’re desperate by not keeping yourself busy seven days a week like she is: by attending Yoga, Pilates, Cycling classes or simply having a slumber party with her girlfriends even though she’s well over 25 or 30 years old.

I’m happier

I no longer view seduction as “work” like I did in America, but a fun and fulfilling activity for both parties.  Where as in America guys strongly believe in the numbers game since that’s the only way to rationalize the amount of work one must put it, abroad things are skewed towards quality.  I know for a fact that the cute brunette sitting at the coffee shop will most likely be polite to my advances whether she’ll want to talk to me or turn me down; and regardless if she had a bad day, etc.

I don’t get cock blocked, I don’t get into fights with aggressive “mother hens” and it’s back to actually seducing women instead of “gaming” them.  And truth be told, why would you have it any other way?

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Jon August 14, 2012 - 4:57 pm

Man, if you keep telling American men the truth, the competition will only increase for those of us who do know about the truth.

I agree, foreign women are soo much better. I just hope it stays that way.

Maverick Traveler August 15, 2012 - 7:19 am

Perhaps I should write a post somehow praising American women?

oregonziggy August 15, 2012 - 12:30 pm

What could you say? Sadly nothing comes to mind.

Maverick Traveler August 15, 2012 - 3:49 pm

I had time to think about it and unfortunately I couldn’t come up with anything positive.

Boheme Chinois August 17, 2012 - 6:22 am

Yeah, that’s why we gotta keep it a secret, if possible. I’m in the Philippines right now and the women are beautiful, thin, and feminine. They are also friendly. In a few weeks, I’ll be heading back to Taiwan where the women are beautiful, thin, feminine, sophisticated, and MODERN.

Seriously, we gotta keep the goods to ourselves, boys. I practically feel scorn when I see an American girl in Asia. She’s usually fat, short-haired, and looking miserable (probably because the competition beats her by a mile).

American feminism must die.

Joeseph July 30, 2013 - 12:48 am

—> “American feminism must die.”

That’s so beautiful! Yes, God help us, yes.

DC Phil December 30, 2012 - 10:20 pm

There is something positive about American women: they show us what we DON’T want. Sometimes, that’s just as valuable as knowing what you DO want.

AB June 18, 2013 - 7:22 pm

Was this in response to me? I can’t tell, sorry!

V September 22, 2015 - 8:49 pm

Being an American woman, I can only laugh at this blog. To begin, the United States is a big country with many different sub-cultures. It is too complicated, and not terribly classy, to stereotype all women the same. Or men for that matter. Second, everyone has tastes and preferences. You have yours and that is certainly respectable. But to create a way to make money from what you dislike has the mark of a bitter man.

With that said, I have certainly been entertained. To think, I accidentally found this site while looking for Women’s American-European Fashion. You may want to recalibrate your search words. Or is that too American of me to express my opinion and then have the audacity to offer advice? Oops…I did it again.

Matt November 7, 2019 - 8:27 am

This is sad as fucking hell, and so true. Can’t honestly compliment. Can’t message her twice before she responds. Can’t give really any honest interest to her or your a beta loser.

I admit I can’t leave the US I don’t have enough money. I will say this recently I’ve really made a concerted effort to find someone that will JUST GIVE ME A FUCKING HONEST CHANCE. It’s clearly NOT going to happen.

As a result I’ve grown to HATE THEM. I HATE THEM ALL. All they do is shit on men every chance they get and make men feel like garbage simply because we are men.


Alphawannabezoo April 6, 2016 - 4:21 pm

LMAO. This is all WORDS. No social proofs what so ever that you date “superior non-American women”.

A blog showing your ” game” and actual DATES with women who aren’t hookers or actresses would be a game changer for your niche. I think you guys can’t get a beautiful, intelligent American woman. Your lifestyle isn’t up to snuff so you downplay American women. Bring some of your EE women here and let THEM sing your praises. I bet none of ya can get even one who will show up and speak on your behalf. Post some videos of all of the traveling you do that’s not a stay at the elder hostel. Come on. Cut it out. All talk no action. LOL.

Ted W August 13, 2016 - 1:14 am

“…you guys can’t get a beautiful, intelligent American woman.”

I think there aren’t very many of those. It’s more likely to find a loud mouthed BBW with lots of tatoos. I’ve lived in Asia for 6 years now and western women don’t last long here.They can’t compete with the lovely Asian ladiesand are virtually invisible. Just an inferior product.

Jonathan Herz August 8, 2017 - 3:04 pm

Exactly right. Very few. There are very few and they tend to have some crazy mental problems to be honest.

I check a lot of womens’ boxes: 6 feet tall, six figure income, big you know what, whatever. Older women buy me drinks.

I will never, ever, make a baby with an American woman or date one.

Susan Sanders August 8, 2017 - 5:23 pm

All I can say is that I am sorry that you have been badly treated by American women but I am not the typical American women. My own mother was angry with me because I didn’t want to take everything from my ex. I was very disgusted by that. I have seen my brothers being abused and used my their wives and I hated it! I unfortunately have run into men who were to big for their britches. I am not here to bash anyone but I have seen problems with American women and men to the point I would rather be alone. I hope you find what makes you happy regardless. Take good care of yourself and I wish you much happiness❤️

Narra August 17, 2016 - 4:55 am

Your post radiates bitter loneliness like the sun does light.

Adrian From E.E. (Poland) September 26, 2016 - 2:22 pm

Yours illicts a pathetic dog yelp helplessly gasping to defend it’s last bit of chewed up, piece of leather for food that is your bitter love life and loosing affair with feminism.

That is your low life sad expression of love.

American females are degenerate reprobates that lack common logic.

Blessings! 😀 :X 😉

Boo October 30, 2016 - 9:26 am

American culture radiates bitter loneliness like the sun does light.

Andy October 30, 2016 - 7:41 pm

Typical American woman. Would rather be combatative than loving, smart, charming, or sweet.

edgar June 25, 2017 - 11:28 pm

Unfortunately, Ms. Narra, American men are flocking to Thailand, the Philippines, Russia and Colombia to meet women whom they fully intend to marry.There are more than 15,000 of these marriages a year,in spite of the red tape and immigration delays.
My own experience involved one trip to the Far East where I was pleasantly surprised by the reception I emjoyed in just meeting and talking to the young ladies.
I am not sure that it takes a “bitter” man to do this,
and I NEVER really saw myself as a “catch”,but I do not believe that it is fair to toss such labels around.

Just me March 26, 2019 - 1:33 am

Thank you for proving the main thesis: American woman are too exhausting, too annoying and not worth the headaches.

lou June 3, 2016 - 11:09 am

Women are women are women. They are human just like you. It doesn’t matter where they are living on earth. Attractive, young women want and prefer their equal. Attractive young men. But, they will put up with your bitter, ugly, old, fat, gross ass, for awhile, if they can escape a difficult life. Then with your money and/or visa in hand, they wil dump your ass for their equal.

Assess yourself by age, attractiveness, weight and find your equal, otherwise don’t get angry when you are used by a girl that you’re using.

Angie June 27, 2016 - 12:40 am

Having been used many times by someone I was using, and wishing the situation so different, You spelled it out beautifully. Mine was a case of survival rather than bank. No more…:) Thank God I escaped that rail.

Angie June 27, 2016 - 12:47 am

And by the way, I give as much as I can. I always have. But I was rendered vulnerable at birth. For the longest time I had only myself to give, or to be taken, so that I could eat and live, ironically while experiencing an inability to breathe. Life, sadly for so many, is a trade off.

Me July 2, 2016 - 2:04 pm

Perfectly said.

Just me March 26, 2019 - 1:35 am

Great point! Except for the fact that the divorce rate among American men and foreign women is significantly less than the divorce rate among American couples.

Sure, there are scammers but few make it past the screens to get the marriage or fiance visas.

Anonymous March 19, 2017 - 2:18 am

I would be delighted to meet a man who is chivalrous, complimentary, spends money, who didn’t play games and was happy.
I live in NYC. I am a woman and I never ask men how much money they make. Many men I meet are not well groomed (how much does does a bar of soap and toothpaste cost?) and very quick to comment on what they perceive to be my shortcomings. I have a trim figure and am well groomed. I have nice skin from exercise and a good diet. I do not like to wear a lot of makeup.
I Was recently told be an older, grey haired man who needed a haircut and a shave that he thought it was a woman’s responsibility to wear makeup. ????
I am happy that you can be courteous and courtly to an attractive and pleasant women.
Too bad you met such stuck up American women.
Personally, I do not judge any human being on their surface appearance. I judge them on the basis of their conduct, words, actions, deeds.
I have been told very recently by perfect strangers that I am old, ugly, etc.
I have also been told by perfect strangers that I look beautiful. I thank them and tell them that is is very nice of them to say.
I would never dream of calling anyone ugly, old or commenting on their superficial attributes (height, weight, job, etc.) the person has their own life and I am not put on Earth to be a beauty pageant judge.
I am happy to hear that you have met a nice woman and they you know how to treat her.
Most normal women, American or otherwise, like being respected and treated well.

Michael May 11, 2017 - 6:27 pm

I stopped trying to date women in America over 15 years ago. It’s been lonely, but all I had to choose were single moms, misfits, broken and distressed females. The dating pool for both sexes over 40 in America is absolutely dreadful. Unless you still look great, have a high status or income, you will have great difficulty in meeting any quality people after that age. At 61, I don’t think I could ever tolerate or even endure another “date”. I’m out of practice, and even trying Match.com at age 58 netted me exactly zero over eight months. 1400 women viewed me, I contacted 40, ten replied, not one would even go out for coffee. These are all women 50 plus. Of course I’m in Houston, a huge white trash shitpile–so that didn’t help any. Moral–find your partner early before 35 or face being single forever. The last women I took out for just lunch, would not even eat a single bit of food, she just snarled and growled at me for 45 min. I met her in college, and took her out 15 yrs. later. She was really a nightmare. That ended it for me. Case closed.

Susan July 13, 2017 - 9:05 am

I married to a 61 year young man and I am a 46 year young American women. He hardly makes any money but I fell in love with his kindness and respect for me. I am sorry you have been hurt but please don’t assume all American women are bad? He has gotten mean to me the last year or so but I stay for I know deep inside his kind. It’s not physical just emotional and no sex. I have been told to leave him by several men but it’s not in my heart regardless.

Susan July 13, 2017 - 8:55 am

I am an American women who is not into a bunch of material, I don’t play games, I show love and kindness and love compliments. I don’t expect a man to be Brad Pitt or have tons of stuff and money. I love when a man treats me like a lady. You are generalizing all American women and that’s wrong! I don’t generalize all American men but I do have difficulties because a lot of American men play some really messed up games yourselves especially to nice ungreedy women like me.
I know men get hurt by women but it’s so narrow minded to think that all of us American women are bad and all other women somewhere else are so great. Really, my brother felt the same way at one time. I warned him he would have difficulties. He married a foreign women and has been paying dearly for it for years. Just be careful before you judge so quickly.

Michael August 7, 2017 - 3:53 pm

Susan you got lucky and you were smarter than lots of women your age. Where I live good women are taken early. By age 30 or later, in TX, you aren’t going to find many women left who don’t have issues or baggage which is considerable. The losers outnumber the winners after 30. After college and high school here, your dating prospects are very dismal. Houston has always been a place where men outnumber women in every age range. I stayed in the wrong place too long, and that is why things went so badly. Austin is the only place in TX you will meet decent smart women, but they are all under 30. Online dating is bad for everyone from my experience–don’t do it! Good luck.

Susan August 7, 2017 - 7:32 pm

I see where your coming from. It just saddens me because I am so different from other women I see. Men constantly tell me I am kind and different in a good way and that just blows my mind. I didn’t realize what a rarity that is in the USA. I know there are other women like me but not enough. I am sorry that women can be more kind and loving to men. I know I am.

Susan August 7, 2017 - 7:34 pm

I meant I am sorry that women can’t be more kind and loving to men. I know I am.

chip June 11, 2019 - 5:54 pm

Susan—it’s most of you in this country. Sorry you’re feeling the fallout—maybe you are the unicorn but with divorce rape and 70% of women initiating the divorce and the whole pink hat mentality, I’m done with American women too. I used to say I’d never date a girl from LA. Now it’s I never date an American. Sorry. Want to change it? Get a few million and march against the pink hats.

bella August 22, 2015 - 1:47 pm

im an american girl and i think a lot of your observations are pretty legit. When i had a date with my boyfriend, he bought Wicked tickets (the broadway) and i payed for lunch, snacks, taxi, and dinner. in america we usually have a strong sense of pride and independence. once u turn 17, ur out on ur own making your own money, unlike other countries where u stay at home till 25 and take all the parents money. Also american women are really tough and strong and are not afraid to fight a guy. I can’t tell u how many times i punched a boy for being mean to my friend and thats jut how we roll, me and that boy were even friends later. Women had e a BIG sense of superiority and dont like being treated like a dainty flower that u need to open the door for. i would be offend if someone paid for all of my meals. i have an equal share. and I’m not so sure where u went to that u went to a bar every date, but in america were reallyyyy big in entertainment we see movies all the time. and yes, the only way to ear respect in america, is to become rich, have a big house, and have lots of money to donate, so thats really important to a lot of men and women. american women aren’t really at all sensitive bu twill cook meals and clean. america is probably the toughest race but really generous and warm/social people

Robert January 25, 2016 - 6:40 am

You punch me and you’re gonna get knocked the fuck out. Equality remember?

Most men don’t fight back because the courts will be against them no matter what.

If women want equality, that means you need to be accountable for your actions and take responsibility… You hit men… Expect to get plowed down… Because essentially you’re saying, “I’m strong enough to fight a man”…

Socially, there maybe equality, but not really when it comes to physical stamina (minus outliers). Keep that in mind.

Mr.Truth January 25, 2016 - 2:35 pm

You are not strong. You are retarded. I’ve met “strong” tiny women from impoverished areas in Vietnam whose only sauce of income is the produce they sell in the markets. They work the fields in simmering heat all day and their hands are full of calluses. Other strong women are the villagers in Africa carrying water on their heads for miles each day. You are spoiled and entitled. Acting busy, doing inane shit like yoga, or typing bullshit into a computer is not being strong. Travel more to see how people are really “strong”.

Manny E. Irizarry @eirizarryRNB February 3, 2016 - 9:42 pm

Preach, pana, preach!!!! Shit on these feminazi’s!!!

Eric February 10, 2016 - 2:22 am

That just rings with the clarity of truth. For the record, I accept the words on their face value from women who claim to be strong & independent. I then respond accordingly when appropriate.
“Do you know why a dryer won’t get hot?” my ex said.
“There’s lots of reasons, all dryers are different.” I say.
“Is my dryer hooked up right? Is it 240v?” she asks.
“I don’t know. I haven’t looked closely.” I answer. She starts to inquire thinking I know more about her dryer. I know the strong independent woman game she plays very well.
“Look,” I begin then pause “if you want me to look at your dryer & maybe fix it you’re going to have to ask me in a direct way.” She doesn’t want to ask for help because it ruins her independent I don’t need a man ever fantasy, yet she wants the thing fixed. Then again I didn’t ask for that repair could be useful as a brush off. Her pride cost her $220 in repairs. I’m pretty sure the element could be ordered for $50. If she doesn’t ask for help then no gratitude or real acknowledgement is in order. The narrative she pretends to embody is her #1 priority. Funny because it saved me an afternoons work & ultimately she provided all the reasons why I didn’t just get it done as a good guy should.

Alphawannabezoo April 6, 2016 - 4:29 pm

Let’s see your social proofs. You guys are keyboard warriors. Put up an IG or Snapchat and let us see your #panamapapers lifestyle.

Just me March 26, 2019 - 1:44 am

It is not that expensive to travel abroad and in the countries that have the best women it is downright cheap to live there if you have income coming from the states.

Me July 2, 2016 - 2:17 pm

I’m an American woman, and I have to admit, that your statement is true. Yes, I do work hard, in a male dominated trade, but I find that the hardest and most pleasant workers, that I’ve worked with are of foreign origin. In this country, I have the luxury of doing a days work, coming home and relaxing(I’m married, but when I was separated, it was also taking care of my kids and going back to work on very little sleep). In other, less developed countries, a woman sometimes takes her children to work with her, and even housewives have to work constantly to keep up even the simplest standard of living, which we tend to take for granted.

ABCXYZ September 30, 2016 - 9:51 pm

You make really good points however, western (not just American) women would just take what you shared and spit it out.

Anthony January 30, 2017 - 6:41 am

I absolutely love this.

And it sounds like his experiences are in New England. That’s where I am and in the year I’ve now been single the grey has left my beard. If you want a relationship you should probably go to the bars because that’s where they spend their free time, getting drunk while dressed like a complete whore and dancing erotically with their friends, You need an above average job (even though it’s fine for her to be a barista in this example of equality).

Oh, compliments are bad also, and unless you’re rippling with muscle with a gigantic bulge in your pants you’re not worth the time of even the fat unattractive women anymore. They can be picky nowadays because they only give a damn about getting laid that particular night, instead of finding a meaningful relationship.

They are truly terrible(on average)

Bob July 1, 2019 - 6:30 pm

Same here. If you want to see a strong woman go to Africa. I have never really been attracted physically to African women, but in all honesty they are amazing. They work incredibly hard, know how to deal with adversity, take pride in being feminine/a woman, are kind and are very loving. I say “Africa” generally as I’ve been to 25 Africans countries and that’s what I have found in all of those countries. Feminazi bitches are not strong. Quite the opposite. I hate them all. Were I not stuck in America for my job (I really can’t get out of it because of my $200,000 in student loans I need to pay off) I would be in South America or Africa looking for a strong, kind and loving woman who’s goal in life isn’t to tear me (and other men) down.

wanderer May 14, 2016 - 7:53 am

“Women had e a BIG sense of superiority”
Big sense of superiority= Fascist
American women make me feel life is not worth living and can’t wait to get the hell out of here. I’ve had female healthcare employees lie to me to evade their job. I’ve had waitresses snub me. A commenter below blames this on status but that’s a small part of it. Otherwise a Subway sandwich maker wouldn’t snub someone who obviously has a better status and standard of living than her.
The problem, as bella,acknowledges it, is female supremacism. Basically women (figuratively) want and expect men to sit in the back of the bus the same way whites used to want the blacks to sit in the back of the bus in the South.

Bella, I’d like to see how tough you are when punching an eastern European man in his turf when Daddy Government is not there to rig the game in your favor and save your ass. Actually American and more generally western (middle class and rich) women are the weakest and most insecure women I’ve seen. (Of course you can find tough women among the poor in every country).

Enlightened January 6, 2016 - 4:50 pm

I think most American women are worthless shit, You meet nicer women who are paid prostitutes. Cheaper in the long run. I wanna meet these Europen women now.

Liberated Mann January 25, 2016 - 3:51 pm

Hell Yes I have seen it for years, Most American women but not all are not worth the body they occupy. Feminism is pure evil & turns otherwise true women into loathsome creatures, hell I’ve met hookers that had more upstairs than that. I think I might check out of the United States of feminism & seek Europe myself, a country where good men are loved & respected for being men, not the narcisstic pigs & whores the good ole USA loves to breed & grow. Bulgaria & Poland a possible but steer clear of Northern Europe…ultra liberal & ultra feminist..favorite ground of muslim rapists,what a pity.

Fatty McGee February 23, 2016 - 11:52 pm

I’m married to a foriegn woman with a PhD and a HIGH paying job. We have a SWEET life. I PITY the morons who still go for AMERICAN ASSHOLE WOMEN. Let them suck your life dry, give you nothing in return and claim it’s all in the name of “feminism”. What a crock of S–T their mothers sold them. Just today, I guy I work with told me a story of how his buddy banged a chick at a concert and got her pregnant. The girl first said she would abort the baby so they could both go their separate ways. Now, she wants to have the baby. What a f–king mess. Seriously horrendous. All I can do is pity the poor a$$hole from my gorgeous home while I count my money that my frugal foreign wife doesn’t want to spend.

Jimmy Sizzle July 12, 2016 - 12:51 pm

I went a step further and decided four years ago to not date any woman who speaks more than twenty words of English! Now I am living happily in Manizales Colombia! By the way It’s the culture guys. American women have for the most most most part always treated me very well. But I refuse to play by the rules of modern American Feminist Contaminated Culture. By the time I was seventeen I had been in the presence of many foreign born immigrants, exchange students, and had been overseas to Spain and China being the son of College Professors.
Once I was in my teens it was clear that American culutre was in the garbage and getting worse. By the time I was in my early twenties it was much worse, by my mid thirties it was unbearable. It is a toxic society replete with male bashing and female “godess” worship. Thank God I learned from men and women of the WWII generation and Korean War generation, and was born in an incredible family. THE WWI Korean War generation men ARE GREAT MEN. American men of the hippy gen x varitey however, generally speaking, are not at all chivalrous: If they are not in the comlete feminized wimp category, they are rude, arrogant, are constantly comparing themselves to other men, very jealous, constantly stepping on each others toes and trying to dominate conversations, lack social skills, do not look out for one another, and gossip and obsess over celebrities like teenage girls. In all of my years in the usa I can count maybe a few times that a male friend introcuced me properly to a single female. Here in Manizales, it is the opposite. Men are so chivalrous, that in a year I have been introduced formally to over a hundred single women. Many of whom are twenty years old and I am fourty five! And unlike in the toxic dating culture of USA, here I meet family members right away, the way it is supposed to be. In less than a year I had been invited into over forty homes where I met an entire family, and was prepared a full meal and we enjoyed delightful converstion and humor. One girl turned me down only because she asked her mom and her mom said no since she doesn’t know me! Best turn down of all time hands down she is still all smiles when we see each other. No need for the awkward Meet the Parents situation a year or so after you have been “dating” here in Colombia. I use quotes because dating doesn’t really exist in modern USA culture. People can hook up anytime anywhere, and in the USA most “relationships” are extended hook ups. Here there are reagaetone bars and such to pull those stunts if you choose. And here there is plenty of casual sex! But actual Dating means courtship and conquest! Nothing like getting to know the girl through work, school, friends, church, activities, and ultimately spending time with her romantically. Here I have met girls in their workplace, in internet cafe’s, coffe houses, parks, restaurants… the “day game” is huge especially with the two hour lunch firmly in place! Then comes actual romance! Shopping, Flowers, gifts, concerts, getaways, hiking, cooking together, holiday shenanagans, craft fairs, parades, motorcycle rides, long walks, walking the dog, excercise… leading of course to the conquest. In general Women here are five feet tall, have nice curvy bodies, great asses and boobs, very feminine, very respectful of men, flirtacious in a shy subtle way, and wear really cute outfits! They live with their families and are very good workers. These girls are “pilas” but Very few are “bravas.” That means they are good workers that keep working and are not at all slackers (remember the energizer bunny?), and caretakers of their homes and families. And yes they still cook, clean and do household chores. Dont be suprised when they want your dates in the company of others at first or with great frequency in general. Chaperoning still exists here guys! Very few are vice ridden with drinking drugs or cigaretts and they speak the most formal polite Spanish possible and never curse. And the best part… hardly any of them speak English! This is absolutely, positively the single mom capital of the world, possibly the best place to be a single man of any age with all the beautiful friendly and single women of all ages, and one of the most beautiful cities with the friendliest people posible I have ever experienced. Happy travels guys… and check out El Sueno del Gringo on Youtube! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ym0M7BZSH5c

Beth Boyd January 29, 2019 - 12:50 am

American women support your decision to avoid them. It’s a win win outcome

Steven May 11, 2019 - 10:09 pm

And, as yet another American man I support American women’s decision on being in their 30’s with no family, and living with 15 dogs to fill in the void that was supposed to be filled with the warmth of their husband and children, with couple of heavy drinking nights each week with yet another fat guy from tinder. Good luck with your decision making.

Penguin Monkey July 6, 2019 - 8:20 pm

Win Win yay!

Chris August 14, 2012 - 8:09 pm

Damn man, all American men can relate to some extent to everything you said above. Congrats on freeing yourself from the matrix. I’m sure I’ll end up doing the same eventually.

Maverick Traveler August 15, 2012 - 7:18 am

Looking forward to seeing you outside the matrix, too, bro.

Mr.Truth January 25, 2016 - 2:37 pm

You can say that again. I am in Houston Texas…quite a shithole over here man. The women are extra fat and extra bitchy and the men are prolific manginas. God help us all.

ABCXYZ September 30, 2016 - 9:55 pm

Are you serious? In Texas men are manginas? I can believe that women are fat because they are all over America and Canada and England. When I was a teenager it was rare to see a fat woman at any age. Poor diet and the birth control pill have screwed up their bodies. Of course, there are more men today who are also over weight.

molecool August 15, 2012 - 10:48 am

Just moved to Spain from Los Angeles. Now, I’m happily married to a French woman but if I wasn’t – boy oh boy… Feminin long haired beautiful pleasant elegant women abound.

Milad March 10, 2013 - 10:18 am

may we ask how you manage to pull this feat? Getting a job as a foreigner in a Spain with the economic crisis and pinning Europe’s most difficult female into matrimony? Please do tell. . .

oregonziggy August 15, 2012 - 12:25 pm

This may be the best post on what we deal with when it comes to American women I have read. Just the truth. I have experienced everyone of them multiple times.

Tyson August 15, 2012 - 12:45 pm

Danish girls are just the same. It’s only in Easter Europe things are still good, entire West (Scandinavia, England, Ireland, basically Anglo countries) are full of these snobby self absorbed biatches.

Maverick Traveler August 15, 2012 - 4:07 pm

Yup, avoid welfare states (Scandinavia) and Anglo countries. Southern and Eastern Europe are great.

Max Ikbal September 12, 2012 - 5:53 am

Quite an insightful post man. I’m wondering what your thoughts are on British women (Scottish in particular). Have you spent much time in the UK? I’d really like to see an in-depth “analysis” of brit broads..

Maverick Traveler September 12, 2012 - 7:50 am

Nope, not spent much time in the UK except being in London for a week last year. British women seem similar to American women though.

No December 27, 2015 - 2:53 pm

No. Living in Europe now. Women here are shrews compared to Americans. Complete ball-busters. And as for femininity, it’s a dirty word. Female clothing is masculinised. Womanly hobbies and past times are belittled. Even the girlish names, such as Charlotte, are changed to a manly form, such as Charlie. You, sir, are full of shit and actually just a person who despises women. If you are also an American, you are a complete disgrace to your nation and your parents should be ashamed for raising such an ingrate. Do the country a favour, stay out.

Adrian From E.E. (Poland) September 26, 2016 - 2:44 pm

Get your ass back under that bridge fucking, looser troll.

Pathetic piece of cum that got into a pussy.

Go back to scrubbing your mother’s corns!

None of the things you said has any ring of experience of any alpha male sanity.

You’re a disgrace to manhood you pussy licking sub. You obviously havn’t spoken to one female in almost 45 years. Probably were jacking off while you typed this weak post. What a pussy.

SickOfFems January 30, 2017 - 6:54 am

This sounds like an American woman arguing her point… Instead of arguing the point they belittle and insult. It’s why Hillary lost, and why a very large portion of our women are completely undatable(which is fine for them since instead of commitment they just want a dick in them)

rivsdiary August 15, 2012 - 2:20 pm

Wow, this is very well written. I was in Warsaw for a few days and got a glimpse of what you are talking about.

Maverick Traveler October 25, 2012 - 7:13 pm

Not a bad place to be as Poland has some great feminine women.

beta_plus August 16, 2012 - 10:53 am

I hung out for a week end with a Russian girl in DC a few weeks ago. Everything you say is true. It’s hard to believe unless you experience yourself, though

Maverick Traveler October 25, 2012 - 7:12 pm

“It’s hard to believe unless you experience yourself, though” — this makes it very tough to explain to others.

Mr.Truth January 25, 2016 - 2:41 pm

Oh yes DC, that’s where you can nub foreign girls. I got two German chicks when I visited DC two years ago, what a delightful experience.

ABCXYZ September 30, 2016 - 9:56 pm

Until they become westernized

world woman August 20, 2012 - 7:25 am

Yes, I am sure it feels nice to have every part of you decorated with medals of greatness without lifting a finger or opening your mind to how the world works and why women, depending on what part of the world they come from and what their economic background is, act the way they do. Fix her a drink, perhaps, next time?

six languages September 2, 2013 - 7:19 pm

So basically what your implying is that economic equality is a license to act like a bitch. Try opening up a statistics text in addition to your “mind”. Women in the U.S. aren’t financial equals to men on average, yet, they are entitled (in a legal sense, not just in the way they act) to more federal programs than men. We’re talking scholarships for single moms, alimony regardless of the cause for divorce, and a crushing advantage in tort law that allows monetary reward if they ‘feel’ like a man at work has been unfair to them. All this while gaining minority status even though they are statistically in the majority. That’s the victory that American feminism has won.
Now take Russia for example. Where men live to an average of 62 years and 1 in 20 die before the age of 21 due to unnatural causes. This creates a gap of almost 2 million dating age women. THATS why there are so many who look to foreign lands for marriage. They aren’t poor and desperate. They want what most other women have wanted since the beginning of time… a stable relationship and a family. American women take this for granted, have children out of wedlock ON PURPOSE, leave husbands so they can ‘find themselves’, alienate the culture of family in the name of freedom, confuse the term ‘loyalty’ with that of ‘servitude’, and attempt to maintain control through insulting and rude behavior. Eastern European women would rather not leave their country and most work for a living in jobs that, although by comparison with the U.S. have low wages, actually pay all the bills and leave enough for travel each year. Plus, the federal programs in Russia support women and children as well. The difference in their behavior lies in their culture, not how much cash they have. They are, in general, polite and receptive. And not because they want to desperately date every guy who approaches them. If they have a guy already or are not interested, they simple state this fact up front. Very politely and matter of fact.
I don’t know where you are from, but you act like a westerner. You start your comment off by insulting the guy who put up this post, make an unsupported and unresearched suggestion, then insult him once more before ending your weak and ignorant post.

six languages September 2, 2013 - 7:30 pm

And yes, that last paragraph intentionally followed your model.

gerard December 6, 2013 - 4:22 am

Well said. Your my hero

Adrian From E.E. (Poland) September 26, 2016 - 2:48 pm

Fix me a instead drink you feminist nazi.

Dana September 16, 2012 - 10:17 pm

your posts are one of the many reasons why i permanently quit dating white american and white-european males a while back, and now i exclusively date black men from the united states, native-americans, and biracial men of color from the united states.

thanks for your post and others, you reminded me of what is so repulsive about white males and it is specifically that arrogant sense of entitlement which comes from having over 600 years of history of conquering other countries and feeling the world owes you something. check your privilege at the door.

guest September 26, 2012 - 11:38 am

lol, another white girl mad white boys aren’t picking them. Guess what, statistically your black boys aren’t going to stick around for your kids and FOR SURE won’t be marrying you. I see a TON of women, late 30’s who dated black guys and then try to switch back to white guys when they see there is no future with brothers. The darker the berry the sweeter the juice, but everything tastes better on a cracker (bitch)

Maverick Traveler September 28, 2012 - 7:06 am

This is the brutal and honest truth that most women can’t get to accept.

Dub September 27, 2012 - 11:58 am

This is obviously the work of a fatty

Maverick Traveler September 28, 2012 - 7:07 am

Let us know how it goes when you run out of men who want to date you in a few years.

David Schimelpfenig October 6, 2012 - 1:29 am

Yes you will be so much better off! It just reached over 80% of all black kids are to unwed mothers. Enjoy food stamps honey

GRW February 10, 2013 - 6:20 am

Black men will sex anything.

nerdfiles January 4, 2014 - 4:00 pm

Are you saying black men have evolved sexually to pansexuality, such that they can sex even reified concepts like God, Jesus, and the Holy Hole?

13chag August 18, 2015 - 1:43 pm

You forgot to call him shitlord, Tumblr.

Steelcore1085 September 11, 2015 - 1:18 am

Women who are racist, sexist, and bigoted such as yourself, are exactly why I decided not to date Western women, especially White Western women. It’s because you believe you have ALWAYS been oppressed for centuries when in reality, you really weren’t. Not by a long shot, compared to the women in the Middle East who STILL face evil.

Men historically have had more responsibilities since we have historically (until recently, no thanks to you fucking women) been the heads of the household and kingdoms. Men died and toiled and suffered, and gave their all very often, partially so that you women “felt” safe and protected. If men throughout history had asked women to help them with their responsibilities, you would have said no every single time. Without us men, you women would be in the dark ages.

If anyone has been privileged, it has been women, especially White women. So check your own privilege at the door and through the rest of the house, you entitled brat!

Patrick December 16, 2015 - 11:48 am

Dating non-white men from the U.S. will not do you any good. Because they are Americans too. The problem is not with white American women or American women, it is with Americans. The U.S. has been ruined by the sexual revolution. People of all races in the U.S. do not respect relationships, marriage, and a strong family anymore.

Mr.Truth January 25, 2016 - 2:55 pm

Yup! So true. It’s not just relationships, we in the U.S have really lost respect for each other in general. I really think this it for us, we are imploding slowly. Hedonism is rampart, no family structure, unfettered consumerism, corruption (big banks,M.I.C, and the revolving doors in D.C) etc…The smart ones are bailing out of this sinking ship, some are moving to other countries taking their money will them, and some have “checked out” of society – there is a rise in mental illness in this country, some of which is self induced.

John April 29, 2016 - 11:31 am

Patrick, you hit the nail on the head!

Manny E. Irizarry @eirizarryRNB February 3, 2016 - 9:55 pm

Dana, your type of women are some of the worst Western[-ized] women of all time. Very decadent bunch of women whom are only interested in Black American men because you all know that they have been raised to “naturally” acquiesce to any woman alas the passive permission of be his superior.

Those men, who you date, are mainly interested in you due to the mitigated pool of women whom date those guys because U.S. media paints those men into a caricature of dating trashy, decadent women. They have no choice due to how racism relegates them to small pool of sub-pat women to court/date.

Of course they’ll be happy to date non-ethnic women due to the aforementioned.

Angie June 27, 2016 - 12:55 am

I second that. Sign me up.

Derek M August 13, 2016 - 5:59 am

I’m black (biracial) I agree with the author 100%. Men with options will typically choose non-American women.

ABCXYZ September 30, 2016 - 10:09 pm

You are full of unwarranted hatred which is unfounded considering feminists are destroying ALL men, not just white. And BTW, when you take your holidays from your career do something; write down every tangible (material items), you see each and every day including the huge obvious ones like roads, bridges, hydro-lines, buildings (homes, business, churches), all items in every store…everything. Every material item was invented, created, produced by white men not over 600 years but far less time via the Industrial Revolution. Yet you have no gratitude? This shows how shallow, and ill-informed you are because if it were not for these Caucasian males, you would not be here. Let’s say though, you were born…you wouldn’t have all the comforts Dana. You are not atypical BTW, instead, so typical from uneducated or educated females. Your wish for white males to lose, is coming true. So we’ll see how white females deal with this during the coming years as there will plenty of none-white males out there.

DoneWithFems January 30, 2017 - 6:58 am

Have you considered that instead of “exclusively dating” various races, you could maybe… Have a meaningful relationship that lasts? You’re useless attitude is the reason you are going through so many relationships that don’t last.

But tell me again about how it’s the white man’s fault.

Jay September 26, 2012 - 6:51 am

Yes, agree hundred percent with all your comments. American woman are charmless gold diggers with ugly attitudes, brainwashed by lesbian-conceived radical feminist idealogy European woman, on ther other hand, especially southern europeans, are simply awesome. Real woman, cultured, classy, happy, never bitchy.

Maverick Traveler October 1, 2012 - 11:59 am

@Jay: Well said.

Izabella February 4, 2016 - 7:22 pm

As a young American American female… I agree with you. I was raised in a house with Buddhist and overall Eastern values and could never relate to girls around me, especially in high school. I am constantly annoyed by the swearing and trashy behavior and I cringe at the Femi-Nazi male bashing because I love and respect men. All of my female friends are of Chinese and Vietnamese heritage and I am seldom seen with other American females. I dress glamorously everyday and do not understand how other girls can go around in sweatpants and baggy shirts. Because of this most people are surprised when they learn I am from the states because I behave differently. (And I also look hispanic or South American because I am part Mexican) Reading articles like this makes me thankful to be different 🙂

ABCXYZ September 30, 2016 - 10:23 pm

But are you a Christian? Good read BTW. Not sure I agree with you on choice of raiment (clothing). Look please, I have conversed with well over a million people so far in my life from all cultures but I am not that old (in superb shape); I am extremely well educated academically yet more so, out in the real world; however, one thing I am certain of > I have never met a female who looks at or meets a man and doesn’t think about, money. How this can still be with women having ~ half the Jobs, excelling in schools ahead of men thus are over taking men…the future is bleak for families as the birth rate will drop even further. Lastly, males did not ask females to take on their centuries=long role as provider while they use to have many children.

Mike September 26, 2012 - 7:05 am

In my experince living with people from all over the globe, in the large house I live in with other travellers, american woman have always been the worst. No social skills whatsoever. Blab about themselves, their needs, but never ask people questions about themselves, how their days was etc. You know, normal human social exchange? They generally have agressive confrontational demanour or else are just plain wierd with stupid alternative philosphies on life. I actually wonder what my american mate is doing with his american girl friend. He could do so much better.

Maverick Traveler October 1, 2012 - 12:36 pm

Reminds me of the time I was in a Paris cafe enjoying lunch on a Sunday afternoon. An American woman was sitting next to me with some platonic friend. Every single line that came out of her mouth started with “I..” Not once did she ask anything about her friend or someone else.

Joe Smitty October 25, 2012 - 7:06 pm

I enjoy your reading your articles. They give me a better understanding on why I feel out of place here in America. I can say more, but the comments already said it.

Maverick Traveler October 25, 2012 - 7:12 pm

Thanks Joe.

Derp McDerp January 16, 2013 - 2:03 pm

Maybe women in other countries find you more attractive because they see you as foreign and therefore high status? Maybe the women you tend to go for in America are simply way out of your league? Have you tried dating some less attractive American women to see if you get a better response?

Dreday February 21, 2013 - 9:23 pm

Did you really just suggest that he tries dating less attractive American women when you can clearly get hot exotic women for less trouble?? Man where’s the logic in that. Hell I’m a masochist but thats just crazy why in the world would you do that to yourself!! smh

Laurentiu Dascalu January 20, 2013 - 8:29 pm

I am from Romania and I have been living for 9 months in the US, Seattle and now San Francisco. Long story short, I think that the American women are far more diverse than the Romanian women, and I like the American women more, maybe because I had more success in the US than in Romania. I do agree with everything you wrote, but keep in mind that US is very diverse and it’s not all black nor white. There are many very nice American women. California girls, they are unforgettable! 🙂

Half-Breed December 6, 2013 - 4:52 am

Thank you for bringing up the idea of cultural diversity. Often times, it is sad to observe the bi-polar perspectives of jaded individuals (and ones who get their news stories from very poorly chosen resources, I might add). One thing to keep in mind is first generation women in the United States, and/or women who were heavily raised by foreign relatives. Women in this category are often caught in the crossfire, heartbroken because they do not fit the stereotypes and are pre-judged quite harshly.

Quintus Curtius January 29, 2013 - 8:32 pm

Well said, and so true. I am in my early 40s and broke the code on all this back in the early 1990s when I was in the military and living and working in East Asia. I got so used to banging hot 9s and 10s with no baggage, attitude, or American bullshit. The truth is that I love women, but have been horrified at the steady, continuous decline in the quality of the women here. I literally was hit with culture shock when I returned to the US…and then I was hit with the unkempt, rude, arrogant, spoiled, short-haired, feminist creatures in the US. My attitude now approaches something like unbridled hatred for American women. For the long term, I am firmly coming to believe that exile is the only sensible long-term option. Don’t bring a foreign women here…she’ll be corrupted in 12 months and you’ll be screwed. Luckily I am self-employed and can travel when I want (South America is my choice destination). American women are to be avoided at all costs…let them have the druggies, tatooed freaks, black thugsters, etc. That’s all they deserve.

Goose February 2, 2013 - 3:17 pm

Home run ! You read my mind !

Maverick February 2, 2013 - 9:36 pm

“American women are to be avoided at all costs…let them have the druggies, tatooed freaks, black thugsters, etc. That’s all they deserve.”

Brilliantly said.

Michael May 29, 2017 - 8:45 pm

Quintus hits it on the nail. Great observations. I’m amazed how many decent women in America settle for or even pursue total losers, criminals, misfits. Soon their lives are a mess, and their loser bf is gone! We have a huge crop of single moms today because too many women and men have never had decent role models for marriage and family life. They live together, have kids, split up, and start over with another loser. I read recently 40% of Am. women are obese! I don’t know what the age range is on that group, but it’s another sign of decline. Obesity creates severe health issues as you age. Anyone ever seen a pretty feminist? The ones I’ve seen over the years seem to be women who can’t get dates, get laid, and rageholics. They created this BS which so many women have accepted over the past 40 years, and now the country is flooded with bitter angry females. This won’t make our society better or happier folks. So glad my dating days are over–I’m even more grateful I don’t have to worry about my children picking through all the losers to find someone to marry or even date.

Baldheaded Fool February 11, 2013 - 3:32 am

I call myself “baldheaded fool” because this is how american women have made me feel for the last 7 years. Has anyone else been completely emasculated by their white american female date in front of a black dude? I have on more than one occassion. The last time it happened to me was at a restaurant/bar in Austin, where my date started flirting with a bald-headed black guy right in front of me. first of all i intentionally moved to austin a couple of years ago because it was supposed to be a great city with educated people and a fantastic white culture. yet, everywhere i go milkduds are flirting with willing white girls. back to my last situation: I’m like “hello” you don’t see me standing right here? When i finally got my date’s attention, she was like “oh, yeah, he’s bald-headed too (patting my head), but doesn’t look as good as you because he’s pasty.” the milkdud in question’s response: “white guys shouldn’t shave their heads, they don’t look as cool” the dude then looked at me and laughed it up and walked away, still laughing minutes later. when i confronted my “loyal white american date” about it, she told me i was being “hypersensitive and not to worry about trying to grow my hair back because i’m balding anyway.” Wow, just wow! Needless to say I couldn’t wait to drop that “lady” off at home (but unfortunately not before she ordered about $60 worth of food and drinks). This was not the first time I have been used and disrespected by white girls in front of black guys. it has also happened around hispanic dudes too who just stop and stare at anything female that walks by. as far as i’m concerned they can have these “fantasy chicks” and i will gladly start shopping globally and take THEIR chicks in latin america, where the women are looking for a chivalrous man with money who will not sleep around and leave them for the next best thing. Lastly, speaking of being chivalrous, i am tired of american girls expecting you to open doors and pull out chairs but then not appreciating or emasculating you just moments later. They can’t have a baby with you because they are too busy climbing over other people’s backs or sleeping with the boss to get ahead…or some are just trying to find themselves….or sponge off a good white guy, then divorce him and live off his child support/alimony. one buddy of mine in dallas had this happen to him and his ex now has some bald-headed mexican gangster dude living off his alimony money! she couldn’t have a baby with him but now is preggers with his halfie. Our child population is already dropping rapidly because of white women’s selfishness but sitautions like this are gut-wrenching! i’m just so extremely frustrated with white american chicks right now, especially after all we have done to help get them to the point where they have the luxury of being a pamepered princess, yet they have no respect or appreciation for us at all! i apologize for all the venting but had to let this out.

Liberated Mann January 25, 2016 - 4:23 pm

Just wait till the Syrian refugees get into YOUR neck of the woods, Obozo is gonna get em here, then women will find out that payback is a bitch.

ILYSB October 30, 2016 - 8:25 pm

Hey baldheadedfool,

My apologies you had to face such an abusive date. Karma is a b*&#@! One day some guy is going to make her feel the same way she tried to make you feel. By the way, it’s good you got to see her true colors before getting too involved with her.

One word of advice, though. You should have walked away from her and got in your car and drove off the minute she started flirting with other guy and mocking you. Hopefully no more dates from hell, but if it happens again, let the black guy foot the bill and drive her home. I bet he won’t, by the way.

Jesus is Lord February 15, 2020 - 11:17 am

Gee! Male entitlement! If you’re so pissed off with American women dating and marrying men from abroad, it’s because you’re being so insecure! Even if she checks out other men, like Playgirl playmates. I bet you guys are more frustrated with mixed-race American girls. They are worse than Whites and other races because they can confuse the daylights out of you. It’s no wonder monoracial Americans beat them up more. Mixed race American girls have plenty of cultures to choose from and are more likely to be promiscuous and spoiled than monoracials and a lot of people here seem to encourage violence against women which is dangerous.

David March 19, 2013 - 11:58 pm

While everything in these articles is true in my experience, it seems that nobody is understanding why it’s true: Status.

A westerner who who is “affluent” enough to be traveling the world or living abroad automatically receives a huge boost in status that is attractive to women. That bitchy, aloof attitude you hate so much is the same attitude your sweet Filipina/Latina/etc. is giving all those native guys trying to flirt with her because their status is either too low or unclear.

So, the reason American girls are testing you is because of YOU and your very suspect level of status. Fix that and most American girls will smile when you make eye contact, flirt back when you flirt, etc.

Btw, as an African American, I must say this thread is getting kind of racist. Attraction to black males usually has more to do with being alpha, confidence, and machismo, in other words, status. And being a “thug” is no different than a “bad boy”, some women like that. Get over your own insecurities and excuses and you might learn something from the “brothers”.

Or just move to South America/Asia/Eastern Europe and get your higher status that way. Either way takes hard work and determination.


joe May 28, 2013 - 5:14 pm

very true

jabari June 14, 2013 - 1:59 pm

Couldn’t have said it better bro..racist and delusional. The OP may have stated a few facts in his write up, but one thing is common and that is stereotypes. I’m sure he’s basing his opinions of not more than 10 girls then he whines and cry about a whole nation. The other men on the site sound like spineless nutjobs as well that believe every woman should be easy and fall in their laps and when a woman shows some backbone, they punk out and resort to the internet to whine and cry. Get this straight, a woman is an individual! Nationality and geographic location doesn’t determine how you will be treated. They are good and bad women in every country on earth. You should also check up on yourselves and take a good look at yourselves: The problem could well be you!

V September 22, 2015 - 9:04 pm

“A woman is an individual”…you sir are a true man. Thank you.

A woman January 25, 2016 - 6:01 pm

Very well said Jabari. Finally, a confident and rational man on this insanely subjective and clearly misogynistic page of word-puke.

I suppose we could pass judgment on an entire population of people because we had limited exposure to a very small segment of it….but that would require us to be small minded and out of touch with reality. It would also require us to lack complete accountability for our own actions of trying to insert ourselves into a “playah” culture (which exists within superficial groups both inside and outside of the US), trying to get our “game” on, and then get pissed that we got played.

I could say that ALL engineers are socially inept because its a very common stereotype and there are a lot of engineers who fit the stigma……maybe this was an issue for the OP when he dated a couple of assertive and outspoken American women? However, I have several engineer friends who are cool, fun and confident so I don’t feel the need to subscribe to trite and narrow minded viewpoints.

Maybe the OP should have broadened his horizons a bit more before passing judgment on an entire nation of women.

ABCXYZ September 30, 2016 - 10:27 pm

It doesn’t matter since the writing is on the wall. When people disobey the laws of nature, they will eventually die out.

LG June 18, 2013 - 7:25 pm

Honestly, I do wonder about this. As an American woman with my own career status generally doesn’t play into what I look for (I guess I want someone from the same social background as me, but IDC if he’s rich). Having said that, I wonder why guys complain about American women being golddiggers, but they’re totally willing to marry a woman from Thailand they’ve known for three days. if a woman is marrying you after three days, it’s not because she’s in love with you- it’s because you have a material item that she wants/needs. I’m not against men marrying foreign women, but I don’t know why some men are blind to golddiggers in other countries.

six languages September 2, 2013 - 9:54 pm

Like all black guys are confident and “alpha”. When you tell people to get over themselves and they might learn something from the “brothers”, you are saying that the trait of status is somehow indigenous to blacks. That’s just you stereotyping. Funny how its fair when you do it. Your early theme seems to be one of dislike for guys with enough money to travel. You obviously haven’t lived in another country long enough to learn the culture. Most Eastern European women aren’t bitchy to the guys in their own culture unless the guy earned it. It is simply a more polite culture. Just like Japanese and French cultures are more polite. Its correlated, not causative. I think that your conclusion that they automatically see affluence in a westerner is a reflection of American black culture’s tendency to see most white guys as rich. In that statement you are equating affluence with status. You then proceed to counter your own argument by correctly noting that some American girls like the “bad boy” persona. But you preface that by saying,

” Attraction to black males usually has more to do with being alpha, confidence, and machismo, in other words, status. ”

So what your saying is that in America, status is about machismo etc but in other countries its only about money. So if a guy has money, then the only reason he can possibly have a girl is if she is in it only for the money. So hey all you guys with money, you HAVE to stay single for the rest of your life because nobody will want you for your personality! It also seems as though you are suggesting that all guys who travel a) have a lot of money b) receive status because of that money c) did not get that money because they had strong character or work ethics ( or as you put it, “hard work and determination” and d) can’t receive that same ‘status’ from American girls because they are weak in character. So by your logic, only foreign women equate affluence with status and Americans who travel can only receive status with affluence. Anyone else’s BS detector going off?
As someone who spent the last 13 years in Eastern Europe, let me correct you. With the exception of a few over-popularized gold-digger stereotypes, most Eastern European women care about character first. The questions they ask themselves about a guy fall along the lines of “will he be a good husband/father?” , “will he be loyal?”, “does he have bad habits (e.g. smoking , drinking, drugs) that will undermine the relationship”, ” is he dependable?”. The vast majority don’t give a crap if he is rich, but do want him to be stable enough to provide for a family. American women are just as likely, if not more so, to go for guys just based on money (like I really need to say that). But they are waaaay more likely to go for guys who make poor life choices because they like the “bad boy” approach. Apparently, you think thugs are strong in character because they are stubborn in their loser ways. Newsflash….there are plenty of upstanding citizens who have much stronger characters and use that strength to contribute to society, not become a nuisance. It is a sign of weakness that a person with darker character traits can’t use that resolve in a positive way. Lots of American women don’t differentiate between the two. But chances are, if an Eastern European woman likes a guy, its because she thinks he is a good man.
In your ignorance, you have insulted every foreign woman, their families, and their culture by directly stating that they see all Americans in their country as having high status. And your last malevolent comment inviting guys who prefer other cultures to just move there is no different than when a white racist tells black people “if you don’t like it here, just move back to Africa.” Again, you think you can get away with such comments you probably would hold whites accountable for. I suggest to you what I would suggest to white guys who state that corollary…..that as American citizens we have a right to disagree with something in our culture and attempt to change it or adapt to it. You have a right to bitch and complain and still stay in the U.S., and so do other Americans. If they don’t like the culture of American dating, then they can complain about it all day, or do the most effective and efficient thing, date someone from another culture. Why wouldn’t you see that? Or is catching white girls here exotic enough for you and championing there “side” by insulting as many people as possible a good enough boost for your ‘strong character’???

Patrick December 16, 2015 - 12:05 pm

Status is only part of the truth. The other part of the truth is that the sexual revolution has ruined the U.S. The problem is not just American women, it is American men too. There is a reason why this country has one of the highest rates of divorce, shacking up, out of wedlock births, etc. in the world. If you want a chance at a long lasting marriage, I will put my money on a Colombian woman before an American woman because the divorce rate in Colombia is 10% vs. 50% in the U.S. You can still have a long lasting marriage with an American woman, but your chances are low based on numbers.

Al January 21, 2016 - 4:26 am

There is a large number of black american males who are not happy with the American black woman because of the American mindset on top of the African American mindset inside of that culture. This idea that all women are the same is just ridiculous. Culture plays a major role in how a woman thinks.

In general foreign women do feel as though American men make better mates because we are less strict and controlling as the men from their own culture. Being a foreigner does boost your status initially because it gets you noticed but its not going to get you the date just because of it.

If the culture teaches women to be masculine you will have the same problems as the USA and West Europe but its my experience that foreign women are more approachable and down to earth and it has nothing to do with your foreign status. If she thinks you are a nice guy many will give you good conversation without having to play mind games.

Its so refreshing to just have a human conversation with a female and it just flows naturally into something more without having to deal with all of the crap that women in American culture expect.

No man can truly just be himself naturally with these women. They expect you to behave according to a strict scripted flow. American men have learned to adapt to this but its not natural because it doesn’t allow you to just be yourself and attract women where as women who are not westernized will fall in love with you because you they see human that they connect with.

Travelchick June 2, 2013 - 4:02 pm

By the way, American men are no big prize either!

Have you seen the bloated, uneducated, money-grubbing, racist, bad goatee wearing, grown men wearing baseball caps to dates, slobs who cannot use a knife and fork, and don’t have a clue that ignorance and separatism, ( in any form) makes the ideal mindless shopper!

The country is full of them, and if they run low, there is always a new crop of bottom-feeders from other countries, waiting to feel superior solely for being pink. The rich are laughing all the way to the bank. Best scam ever!

DoneWithFems January 30, 2017 - 7:17 am

And yet if a man points out any of these things, fat, soon, poorly dressed, about a woman, it is immediately met with how absolutely disgusting of a pig he is. A girl goes out in sweatpants and she is like a prize because she’s an empowered woman who doesn’t need to dress herself up. A man goes out in sweat pants and oh my god he is a disgusting slob, why is he even out in public?

Oh wait, that’s only if they’re white men to boot…

AB June 18, 2013 - 7:20 pm

Ok- so full disclosure I am American/female. I’m not most of the things you describe- in fact, I get a lot of critiques for being too submissive and I’ve even had one boyfriend yell at me for “not challenging him” enough. I currently have a boyfriend, but when another man compliments me, I always thank him (unless he’s saying something very sexually explicit) before politely telling him I have a boyfriend, out of respect to my significant other.

I’m thin (not sickly skinny, I think- just fit. I’m 5’6″ and 120 lb and work out quite a bit). I’m not the best-looking person ever, but most people do think I’m pretty. I love being girly, I would hate to have short hair (mine right now is chest-length, am trying to grow it longer), and I love cooking and taking care of my boyfriend.

I’m not saying that what you’re writing isn’t usually true- I do know women who fall into the categories you mention and I really wonder why they do this to themselves. But I hate to think that my boyfriend will jet overseas to find someone else just because I happen to be American. He has dated non-Americans in the past who were living in American temporarily, and he says they aren’t that different from American women (although he does hate women from Los Angeles).

Now I’m wondering what I might do inadvertently that’s “American”. Short story- what can I do to be less “American” (and thus, keep my boyfriend) without putting on a fake accent?

Maverick June 19, 2013 - 1:23 pm

I can tell — even without meeting you — that your biggest problem is insecurity.

As long as you keep that in check, and go by what you feel instead of following “The Rules” as well as playing endless games, you should be OK.

Mike77 October 22, 2015 - 10:34 pm


You sound like a nice woman (assuming that what you wrote about yourself is true). , then you are the minority of nice American Women, possibly the hard to find one-percent. So you don’t need to come here feeling defensive, that your character is getting attacked. If you are nice, then good for you, just go about your merry way.

What bloggers refer to when they talk about trashy American Women, they are talking about the OTHER 99%, which covers a large swath of them.

Joel N June 19, 2013 - 1:31 pm

Honest question, and not trying to be sarcastic. A lot of dudes I know who won’t date American women say it’s because they’re too slutty, but then they don’t bat an eyelash when they go overseas and women magically want to sleep with them immediately (if they’re willing to do that with you, chances are you’re one in 50 guys who managed to get in her pants that month). Not saying there’s anything wrong with sluts (and maybe you don’t think American girls are slutty, which case my argument is moot) but what do you think? Do you assume that if a Latin/Asian girl sleeps with them right away, it’s the first time she’s done something like this? Or is your issue with American girls completely unrelated to being “easy” sexually?

Maverick June 19, 2013 - 4:19 pm

“A lot of dudes I know who won’t date American women say it’s because they’re too slutty,”

That’s the first time I’m hearing guys complain about slutty women.

DiltWasney August 14, 2015 - 8:19 am

I guess he mistook the advice “don’t marry a slut”.

DoneWithFems January 30, 2017 - 7:21 am

I’m far from interested in slutty women. They certainly aren’t for dating.

Wouldn’t you want a woman with values? Not a whore?

LWC July 11, 2013 - 7:55 pm

I’m an American female who has lived abroad and visited many countries. I do agree with the majority of your perspective of us. I noticed such a big difference of how women respond to men in other countries. There is one thing I don’t understand… if the women are so great, why are they still treated so poorly by the men in their native country? While living in Chile, I noticed the whole “Machista” thingy. The women were so nice and treated the men like kings, but the men would have lots of different women. I visited my friend’s house in Chile, and he introduced his father and let me know that he only lives there sometimes….because he has a girlfriend and they live together as well.

Expectations are different depending on the culture. I don’t judge. You should date/marry whoever makes you feel happy. I also think it can go both ways… maybe some American women now prefer non American men after dating men from other cultures…

Even with all the negative things said about American women on this post, I still think GOOD men (dispite cultural background) are great…not all men feel the same way you do about us. And plus, my husband is Canadian and he is amazing and I let him know everyday. We are pretty traditional in our gender roles, and I’m okay with that. He’s the king and I’m the queen! At the end of the day, people are people. It makes more sense to choose a life-partner based on compatability, chemistry and values rather than which country they were born in.

Andy October 30, 2016 - 8:38 pm


The answer is that American women are subsidized, backed up, supported, coddled, etc etc by the most powerful government in the world, whereas women from the third world have to negotiate from a position of personal power.

For American women, sex is more about (maintaining) this power than about connecting to another human being. For American women, it’s all about “her rights”.

I cannot tell you how long it has been since being on the presence of an American woman aroused me. It’s been decades! Meanwhile, twice last month 2 foreign women have purposely waved their long hair on my face/bare arm as they sat/stood near me. Guys love that stuff. It’s makes us feel alive.

Suzy August 9, 2013 - 11:32 pm

I’m a white American woman and I have to agree with what you say. The sad thing is that most American women (if they read past the first point) will become defensive in reading this instead of looking for ways of self-improvement. My husband is from another country, so in the past 4 years of our marriage it has given me a fresh perspective and made me realize my own bad habits, and helped me work on them. Why are most of us so entitled, defensive, and complicated?

Mike77 October 22, 2015 - 10:49 pm

The fact that most American Women lack self awareness is part of their main problem. They don’t see or think that they are doing anything bad, because its become the new normal here in the USA.

Harsh reality dawns on them, when men abroad, don’t even pay them any attention. Instead the men are with slender, sweet, feminine, foreign women.

David September 22, 2013 - 10:26 am

I do no think it matters what is the woman’s age is or her status or her origin, the important thing is to know what to do when you decide that a woman is for you, the hard part is understanding the communication coming from the other side, you need to learn to see the sings and react to them, at the end it becomes a second nature, there is a cool article I found that covers the very basics I hope it will help you, http://bewitchingcloseness.com

Kat October 17, 2013 - 4:11 am

Okay, so, on one hand I had to laugh because, really, isn’t this post about how much of a challenge we are that you had to quit? On the other hand, I also felt really sorry for you. I’m sorry that you had to write this to feel better about yourself. I’m also sorry that you next girlfriend may never know what a giant pussy you are. Or will she be too comfortably stupid to notice?

13chag September 30, 2015 - 12:56 pm

See, now this is the type of behavior that causes men to leave you.

DoneWithFems January 30, 2017 - 7:27 am

Ha, you’re such a challenge that he needed to quit?

How about, you’re such a challenge. And that’s not a good thing.

End of story, instead of trying to have a decent connection with someone, it’s about games and empowerment.

It’s not just because of American women though, a big part of it is social media and how absolutely fucking useless it has made people.

I’m validated and special because ten thousand people I don’t know like my picture with my tits hanging out!

Katie October 18, 2013 - 5:19 pm

“if I ever need to get into the pants of an American girl” what
“(most of my conquests in US were South American and Eastern European)” conquests?
“You may pay for dinner and drinks one day, but next time she’ll gladly come over and whip up a great meal for you, or even clean your house wearing nothing but high heels.” is the latter some sort of weird sexual fetish?

I agree with most of your points, being an American woman of British upbringing dating a foreign man, however: I do not agree with your portrayal of women in some of these instances.

Shade November 28, 2013 - 1:58 am

I thought I was the only one who thought this. American women think they are entitled to so much it is ridiculous. They are contradicting. Wanting to be treated like a woman but want the right to be a man. I have saw it all the time on dating sites–even Facebook. They want the bad boy and guys who just don’t give a damn for them. Then they have a baby. Once they reach 30, and have 3 more kids, they feel entitled to the “good guy” now. “I will not settle for less than I deserve”, “I am looking for a guy who got his stuff together” (But you are 30, 3 kids, and working a $10 job). But you are entitled the good guy though? Right?

And the generation gets no better. If you compliment an American woman, or buy them a drink, etc, it is not seen as a friendly gesture. It is seen as “this guy just wants to fuck me”. I’ve spoke to foreign women and it is not like that. They actually converse and ask you questions back and even compliment you. Ask yourself. When you go to a club. Has a woman ever bought you a drink? No. But I tell you what. She’ll buy another woman a drink before she buys a guy she thinks look good one.

Ask yourself another thing. Facebook is a social commodity. So, how many women you see on Facebook posting pictures of their asses sitting on counters, middle fingers up, cleavage showing, other sexy pics. But post statuses complaining about how all guys want is sex? I have many foreign women on my page who haven’t even posted a single sexy photo. At 24, I know already that if I ever get married–most likely it will not be from a woman in this country.

gerard December 6, 2013 - 4:42 am

I am a black professional. I’ve dated American women, white and black and gave up a long time ago. It’s next to impossible to find a quality American woman. They are all about the money and a lot of American women have so many psychological problems. Not to mention they have no real social skills. I will be dating only South American women from now on. A few of my buddies have married Latinas and they are very happy.
Good bye forever American women. 

Marchello James Bollatti January 4, 2014 - 11:30 pm

I love this man!!!

Mauro June 2, 2016 - 4:00 pm

Marchello, your father is Leandro Bollatti?

Marchello Bollatti September 24, 2016 - 12:45 am

Wow, yes he was!!! Who is this?

Patrick December 16, 2015 - 11:23 am

I am a black professional too and I have given up on American woman too. I also have dated black and white American women and both have given me hell. My last girlfriend was a black American and she never appreciated anything that I did, always tried to find fault in me, wanted to dump me over the smallest things, and didn’t tell the truth about her male “best friend”, who I later found out was her boyfriend for 7 years in the past who she is now dating again after she dumped me. What is so crazy is that when I first met her, I kept saying “but she is American.” I should have listened to myself. I have dated Uzbekistanian, Persian, and Burmese. Although I am not with any of them right now, I am still very good friends with them and actually go out with them from time to time (if they are not dating someone). But I am not friends with any of my American ex’s…black or white. Right now I am searching in Latin America (Dominican Republic, Colombia, Brazil, etc.)

Marchello James Bollatti January 4, 2014 - 11:33 pm

Very interesting..thanks for the post!! I like people that are cultured and real, foreign people just in general are a different breed,they are not jaded by american culture…

CB October 24, 2014 - 10:09 am

Haha go figure. Stupid American cunts

arize November 7, 2014 - 10:46 am

David, I’m sorry, but this is an utter BS. Being an American doesn’t automatically equal to status. Not for a long time and most certainly not in the most parts of Eastern Europe.

Most Europeans regard the Americans as predators (not necessarily sexual) and arrogant SOBs. Here in Europe, if you’re an American, people are actually surprised if you speak more than English, which is SO rare, and you’re not some religious fundamentalist.

And about the American women wanting to date Black guys because of them being an Apha and shiiiiieeeet, this is bull as well. When I was in America, I saw only fat women and crack whores with Blacks. Either that, or some ultra liberal modern day hippies, who just want to shaw to their racist daddies who’s the boss, ending only hurt themselves. The Blacks are lousy fathers in the rare cases when they actually stay to be fathers; they’re aggressive and oppressive, with very poor impulse control. So it has nothing to do with their machismo and has everything to do with the women dating them being stupid and drunk on Hollywood kool-aid.

big boy December 10, 2014 - 5:15 pm


arize November 7, 2014 - 10:58 am

This is awful, man. But let’s face it – that woman in the beginning of your post wasn’t worth it, if she is into Blacks.

I’ve never been in Austin, but I’m pretty certain there’s no White culture there. Everything White had been deliberately erased in the US. The last thing that still stands is you – the White Americans. And once they take your guns…

arize November 7, 2014 - 11:39 am

I’m a South Eastern European guy, and it is all true about Scandinavia and the countries from the British commonwealth. There are exceptions, of course. I know few girls from Sweden who are still sweet and feminine. But most of the others are just feminazis nutjobs.

And you American guys, if you’re from an European descent i.e. White, I think that if you find your soul mates here, you should stay here, not take them to the US. It is not so bad, you can have a good living here, I know two American guys who married Bulgarian women and they live in Bulgaria, one has a private school, the other – trucking company. We can use your enterpreneurial expertise and traditions and your hard working ethos. It is win-win, the way I see it.

Of course, South Eastern Europe is not the US and never going to be, but that is kind of the point, isn’t it?

millennium November 15, 2014 - 1:39 pm

So very true about imported women getting correupted/americanized fast. I’ve experienced this first no less than three times. First: after 1.5 year Second; after 2 years 3rd: after 4 years just before marriage. I’m very glad that we didn’t get marry in the first 3 years (normal in Europe), imagine if the americanization happens after that!!! Now I would have no house, no time, no wife, no savings. F*king feminist culture is compromising every single female being in the US, whether born or imported. Before “happily married for 5 years” US “women” chine in: the only difference is how much time it takes, I’ve seen the scale shift even after 12 years, in add of a close friend.

Sattack210 November 23, 2014 - 2:49 am

Well, what can I say? American women are mostly (not of them but most) a bunch of bitchy, harpy, disgusting cunts… I really feel sorry for american males. No wonder many of them look for women in other countries or women of other races in the USA. The problem with many of them is that they are obsessed with power and not look weak and think being a total bitch is the best way to be firm.

Elven King December 2, 2014 - 6:18 pm

I know this post is old but, funny seeing you here, sir. When are you going to write another amazing article for RoK?
-Elven King

big boy December 10, 2014 - 5:11 pm

And you sound like a pussy whipped bitch.

Mark N Starla Traina December 15, 2014 - 5:09 pm

Very Important: Why have WHITE MEN stopped getting INVOLVED with serious
relationships with WOMEN?

ANSWER: WHITE MEN no longer feel RESPECTED and have to a large degree have

VIDEO: http://angrywhitedude.com/2014/12/sexodus-you

… back in the 1970’s and 80’s strong-spirited WHITE MEN were VIEWED as MACHO,
HEROS, etc …

… in 2014, strong-spirited WHITE MEN are PORTRAYED as SEXIST, MEAN-SPIRITED,


chris007 December 28, 2014 - 3:54 am

As a college student every time I go into college, I just get this negative feeling and put my headphones and go on. I no longer have that desire to talk to girls anymore. They are so soaked up with their phones. On Facebook is like a useless site to meet people. To chat, they won’t respond and if they do, they say “do I know you?” Like hey Facebook is freaking social site……to meet people. Can’t wait to go overseas. And I’ve never had a gf before or dated anyone yet and I’m disgusted already

dean c December 2, 2015 - 6:02 pm

hahahaha my thoughts exactly. well said..

especially the face book comment i couldn’t resist not to reply to.. “do i know you ?”, that is the golden one that i use to get all the time, then of course to be blocked and deleted after being royally told to “f” off. modern day gals for ya. they really must be scared of us all.

wasted efforts for little reward and i am not even an american. so i hear you.

Tim February 24, 2015 - 5:54 pm

I spent three years in Germany with USAF in the mid 80’s. European women are by far better than American women. My ex wife and I got divorced 3 years ago and moved to Boise, Idaho…God what a huge mistake, these women are either married or so self absorbed stuck-up snobs. Waste of my $ and time. I will be moving in the next 9 months for shoulder surgery and never looking back. Would like to move back east I hear the ratio is better than here on the west coast. May have to take a road trip. Really like to go back to Europe but it takes $.

brian February 28, 2015 - 3:03 pm

One day the American dollar will collapse and all of the games, bitching and bullshit won’t get American females anything. Instead they will have to sell their vagina to Chinese men to get all the nice things that they try to use men for. Eventually, the country will start working hard again and the new generation of females will grow up with good values. For the first time in about 50 years (from now) American women will appreciate life and what they have.

SK8Clee March 8, 2015 - 10:52 pm

I whole heartily agree with you. American women by far are probably the worst wives and lovers on earth. Being in the military I got chances to travel to places. By far women overseas are far more beautiful and they don’t play games like the women do in the US. I’m serious with a woman from Asia now and will get married to her by the end of this year. But I knew since a teenager I would never be with an American woman

jawn March 16, 2015 - 8:27 am

I am a desirable man.I have dated many women,never ever had a problem getting a date.I have the gift of the gab.I made a woman literally pee herself laughing(after a few beers of course)
I work hard,am successful in life….Have my own home,even laughed to myself at one point because I was a single mothers wet dream….lol
I had a mini van,a job,good credit and a house with 4 empty bedrooms in it.These Americhicks are completely deluded.I had a single mother tell me once that I must like “younger women.”Women are so deleuded they cant understand in a bad economy that a woman with someone elses rug rats to feed is an idiotic choice.Why not just date a woman without kids….duhhhhh
Why date a chick who’s vaj jay jay had some other dudes sperm take root????? ugh….
I talked to a liberal chick who was insane who often talked to her right to abortion,Hey honey,thats great but as American men that want children,why in the hell would we even want to talk to such an abortion happy abomination??????
What kind of country as the Usa is leads the world in abortion and single motherhood at the same time?????????????????What kind of chick can get pregnant today with the morning after pill available…
I will tell you who,Americhicks who use abortion as a contraceptive.
Women today are fubar to celebrate abortion ,obesity,single motherhood and divorce,outright destroy themselves and then ask where have the good men gone.
I look back at the plethora of women I dated in life,and even most women who would have themselves together or claim to,many were straight up mentally ill.
Ladies,straight up,your no fun anymore.Most of you are financial and emotional liabilities.
I dont even know if foreign women are an option.I saw a russian woman pull the old if you dont have another kid with me,I am moving out trick.Her hubby was a new doctor,literally taking care of his wife who didnt work,her mother that lived there who also didnt work,a new born,himself and servicing a mortgage,all monthly bills,food,healthcare for everyone as well as almost 300,000 grand in college debt.The man was completely depressed.
He said if he had another kid he didnt even know if he could pay the monthly bills.If he didnt have a kid,we both know she wouldnt be going anywhere,well because she would get the house.
Men like myself see this shyt and say nuh uh,no way jose….I told him to leave her and go to mexico and be a doc,I am sure they would take him in.Leave this life behind and leave those two old hags in the house to go into foreclosure and never look back.I offered him a room in my house scott free but lived too close to his house and his wife would have known where he was.
Ladies,you are using the courts against us and our own families so openly for your own profit it is disgusting.
Liberalism and feminism has ruined you.As bill burr said,society hasnt held women to any moral or ethical standards because men dont hold women accountable for anything because they want to have sex with them.
I am thinking that Americhicks can only find bottom of the barrel men with no assets to marry or have children with because they are the only ones dumb enough to do so.
I dont know what the answers are….but these American and foreign women,many arent worth my time.Foreign women in America figure out they own the family and criminal courts.
In the words of the great man on you tube devlan the comic,”rub one out and keep it movin.”Another great you tuber declared,buy a dog and put your nuts on ice.There are legal who#r houses in Nevada to put a bug in some mens ear….if things get to bad for ya…
Disney princess movies,psychotropic drugs,liberalism,femicommies…the average level of narcassism of the average woman,the sense of entitlement for the average woman who is a 4 outta 10 who thinks she is an 8,the single mothers,obese women,divorced women….even the sheer number of women literally pregnant on dating sites dressed as dirty zombies giving the duck faced kissy faced peace sign in online dating ads…
You women are wack.You have completley neglected your minds,bodies and spirits and dont seem to care.Women in America celebrate obesity because men will still have sex with them,which is why many of these men who will have sex with them are bottom of the barrel men.How trashy.
Maybe you cant find a good man,because your not a good woman as big beautiful women with kids and broke,refuse to date big beautiful men with kids….Somehoe you ladieshave it in your heads that no matter what your still that 18 year old taught,beautirul desire woman….even at 32 with someone elses kids,broke,no job,living with mom,massive amounts of debt etc…..
Your just to much women and your not fun anymore.You need professional help.Please get over yourselves till you drive every good man in this entire world overseas.
The average woman who ahs destroyed her mind,body and spirit….the chance I am going to meet this strong independant woman who can actually contribute hard assets herself and have a nice heart and not literally steal my home today is so small,buy a dog and put your nuts on ice.
Get angry ladies,you initiaite 75% of the 50% of all marriages that end in divorce in America.You have relgated yourselves into obscurity.
I wish things were different,sure this post sounds negative,but so is the average money grubbing bring nothing to the table but a vaj jay jay kind of western female.

Derrick April 13, 2015 - 6:50 pm

American women suck for these reasons.
– They have a stuck up supermodel attitude even though they are 5-7 looks wise
– Their looks expire after 30 and earlier if they get married at 24. Really fugly after 40!
– They hate dressing girly or being a home maker type
– They have a princess attitude where the world needs to revolve around them – and that they and their feelings should only matter
– Foreign women will date an older guy, American women won’t, so if you are over 35, you are stuck with the over 35 female cow women crowd (yuck).
– American women are overvalued, they put in hardly any effort in the looks department, and stupid brainwashed American men still fawn over them, treating girls with the looks of a 5-6’s like supermodels – so American women have a warped sense of worth to the opposite sex.
– They tend to be socially retarded (can’t hold conversations)

Mike77 October 22, 2015 - 11:42 pm

Lots of women that look like super models are actually plain looking. They just layer on tons of make-up. You can find proof in google and youtube videos of lots of supposed hot women before and after make-up.

My point is that you should never be afraid approaching a women you THINK are out of your league. Without make-up that “perfect 10” is like a 5 or 6 at most.

I have no problem with plain looking women either, but what generally bothers me is their shitty, entitled attitudes.

Jeri June 5, 2015 - 10:04 pm

Well James, thanks for sharing your perspective on American women. I’d say you’re on point to a degree, unfortunately these rules of engagement work both ways. Being an American woman, I typically steer clear of American men for all the the aforementioned reasons you’ve stated. Americans, as a whole, look at relationships as a sporting event, which is often why you hear words and phrases like “player” and “no game”, etc…I prefer no games, I value authenticity and the American way is not my preferred way. My 2 cents

Patrick December 16, 2015 - 11:13 am

Jeri, as an American man, I have to say that I agree with you. It is not an American woman thing, it is an American thing. It is very sad. I cannot speak from a woman’s point of view, but from my point of view, I cannot date an American woman again. When I met my last girlfriend 8 months ago, I kept telling myself “but she is American.” I should have listened to myself because she put me thru hell while at the same time I turned down a Filipina because she was out of town and the American girl was alot more prettier and sexier. Reality is that I should have picked the Filipina. Her attitude and view on relationships is totally opposite of my American ex. My ex is like most Americans who have bought into the crazy thinking of our socieity. Now I am paying the price.

JTC June 22, 2015 - 6:37 pm

I started dating women from SE Asia and Brazil a few years ago… never looked back.

Aaron October 18, 2015 - 9:24 pm

I’m an American Man and I completely agree with everything you said here.

American women have this complex: on one hand they say “I don’t need a man” and on the other: “Where have all the good men gone?” These women are walking contridictions. The fact is that they are surrounded by good men that go out of their way to try and tolerate their compassionless stupidity and impulsive, mindless behavior.

I am done with American women. They are manipulators, liars, cheaters and genuine fakes.

However, I really can’t stand most Americans in general. Although the scale is certainly tipping one-way, American men are sycophantic and not much better.

American culture is superficial in general (yes, espically the women). We buy things with money we don’t have to impress people we don’t like. We have been indoctrinated into a material culture that places little value on meek sentiment. As a matter of fact, really caring about these women will only lead you to dispair and disappointment. I know from personal experience.

Our families are as disordered and chaotic as our relationships. This is why we have such rampant divorce rates and drug abuse problems. Being real is a sin among the masquerade and you will be punished for it.

These women have no honor or dignity in them. Most of them can’t really cook and have no skillsuch of any value. They know how to dress half-naked and grope strangers at the local bar every weekend though… while you’re out working to make her car payments -_-

Thank God I was smart enough not to marry* or have children with any of these lifeless bimbos.

There are a few, VERY FEW (but they do exist) American women that are actually “women”. Not a little girl with a daddy complex, but a genuine women! They don’t gossip like they’re still in high school, aren’t afraid of being original, have an intelligence level above mentally handicapped AND TO THEM the words ‘love’ , ‘loyalty’ and ‘respect’ are more than just ‘vistigial words’ that make trendy tramp-stamp tattoos.

…but for these women (~5%) I do not stand a chance. Not because I am somehow undeserving – but simply due to mathematical probability. These women are so rare that they usually already have a quality mate of their choice. Being ethical beings, they wouldn’t sacrifice the one they love for someone they simply ‘like’… and I don’t expect them too either. I’m happy for them! I don’t condone (and neither do they) taking what isn’t mine. At least her boyfriend isn’t a douchebag ‘swaggtard.’ I would reassure myself that this is evidence that real people still exist. -It gave me hope at one point.

I once calculated that my standards in women decrease the availability by such an exponentual factor that I literally have greater luck being struck by lightning than finding a woman worth while in my demographic.

I’m at the point when I’ve lost the will to keep searching for pointless endeavors. I’ve been alone for a little over a year now 🙂

Yeah I have physical ‘needs’, but you won’t find me selling my soul. I don’t have to.

*I’ll live.*

If their is an American woman out there reading over this, thinking the same thing… wondering if you’ll ever find a real man to love… I’m sorry for ‘giving up’ (I know real men don’t give up) but don’t hate me for it.

If their are any foreign women that are reading this… that are interested in an intelligent, compassionate and generous man that would never throw you to the wolves… Id have to say Sorry as well. Those stuck-up American bimbos ruined it for you too* I’m officially ASEXUAL.

If I’ve learned anything from American women – it’s that even your own SHADOW leaves you when when you’re in darkness.

Jessie January 1, 2016 - 10:53 pm

You’re all ignorant. More power to you and your biased ideologies. Obviously you should know better than to generalize, but I guess that common sense eludes you.

I wish you luck on your journey you ill-informed adult baby.

Another thought February 28, 2019 - 2:34 pm

And here is another reason why men avoid women like you!

BETAOPTICS January 5, 2016 - 3:12 am

I agree and it is not so much different in Finland either though I think the feeling is mutual here. Women claim frustration because local men no longer pay attention or effort to them which surely must feel frustrating but because they seem to lack self-awareness that they too can sometimes do wrong, they take their frustration in this exact same way American women do.

I can’t blame you as it is perhaps even more polarized there from my experience. I would not date the local women there either and local women in Finland are already bad as it is.

I certainly find myself agreeing that Middle or Eastern part women are much more natural and delightful to talk to. It is not this stupid game but merely a genuine relaxed natural interaction where both of you are just there to have a good time. The sort of passive aggressive attitude of locals is so unattractive and I never managed to understand it.

I never asked for accepting silence but just basic good manners of politeness, even in rejection. I personally never shat on a woman making advances so I had the basic courtesy to thank you for trying at least. Wish that behavior was replicated and mutual but it is not, not in the slightest.

But screw locals. There are better women elsewhere that are far more fun to be around.

Al January 21, 2016 - 5:02 am

Long story short. Date other cultures that are non westernized or less westernized and you will see that women are feminine and also down to earth humans. Its very natural to establish a relationship.

American culture has damaged both sides but since I am a male I speak more about how it relates to me and that means seeing the difference in women across the board.

Most of my friends are foreign women and it feels good to just be yourself and have a good heart and women approach you because they like how you think, treat others, and view the world. You can talk and share with many and not get put in a box (friend zoned) and things can grow to more at any moment.

In westernized cultures you can get put in a box so easily and men work hard to keep up a certain persona so that doesn’t happen.

That’s not what being a man is about. If you have to change yourself just get her to notice or like you and be some person on the outside that you are not on the inside then they are not worth it.

Don’t let the sickness of the culture corrupt you with all of this Alpha male bullshit. Find women who fall in love with you and not your persona (illusion).

With foreign women its easier to have that relationship where you just meet this woman. She is attractive and beautiful, down to earth. You approach her and talk and establish a friendship. There is no pressure for a relationship or to game her. You two now establish a human to human relationship and in the process of her getting to know you she starts to have feelings for you because she admires the type of person you are… This is type of thing happening in the USA is rare.

So many times foreign women (East Africa, Filipino, Asian, Central, South America) have told me how much they admire that I am nice, sweet, kind and that I am considerate man and approach me for a relationship. Yes… All I have had to do is be myself and I get offers from attractive women who admire the type of human that I am. This is how its supposed to be.

Never have I ever heard an American woman say this or do this…

You are supposed to be able to meet a woman and just start out as friends and you two get to know each other and if there is something more it will develop naturally instead of forcing things how it is done in the USA and other Westernized countries.

Just be lovable person with women of non westernized cultures and they will like you. Trust me it happens because they are more and feminine. This is why.

James Maverick January 21, 2016 - 5:08 am

This is a great comment. Thanks for taking the time to comment, Al.

Shanna January 28, 2016 - 12:45 am

Unfortunately, I disagree with many of the points you made because a lot of it depends on personal experience. I, myself, am an American woman married to an Asian man. The conventions you speak of- receiving chivalry and compliments, being sincere (no games) and confident (not attacking men with my insecurity), not being aggressive or volatile- are all qualities that I and the women that I spend my time with possess. In the U.S., in my opinion, at least, there are too many pocket cultures and varied backgrounds to define each interaction as a representation of the populace as a whole; of course this is true with anything, but I digress. I’m gave up a promising career so that I could travel for my husband’s work and now write on the side while taking care of his needs in compliment to how he cares for mine. It’s not exclusive to women from Europe and Asia.

James Maverick January 28, 2016 - 4:38 am

Hey Shanna – Nice comment.

“I’m gave up a promising career so that I could travel for my husband’s work and now write on the side while taking care of his needs in compliment to how he cares for mine. It’s not exclusive to women from Europe and Asia.”

Sounds like you two have a nice marriage. Best of luck to you.

Joe January 31, 2016 - 1:30 am

Man you hit the nail right on the head here. I am from San Diego Ca . and It is a beautiful place but the dating scene in California is really lame bro.

I went to Thailand and was overwhelmed with the amount of dates I can get and did not feel like it was work . I felt so happy over there that is why I am going back. I got lots of dates and never have to worry about being alone and single again.

When I was single in Cali. all I did was work my ass off and the woman didn’t even care man. It was really freaking lame. I feel liberated ever since decided to never date an american woman ever again.

Epic post brother! Keep up the good work

Bronze February 3, 2016 - 12:55 am

I got to say, this is not a respectful article. Im black and the most disrespectful thing I have ever met was a other blacks or black women. How can we say we are better if we talk about women like this? Is this not the same shit women do? Whine whine whine. They are hell a bent on being the way they are but we can’t say they are completely in the wrong because they are our other side. We have to take personal responsiblity for making them that way. They will not read this article and change, just get madder.

Rachel Farina February 5, 2016 - 12:25 am

I really appreciate all these posts on American women, even though I am an American woman!! I wound up with an Argentinian men of Spanish descent. But I am one who doesn’t play games and American men are so used to playing games I’m just lost. I don’t understand why we can’t be openhearted and genuine. I see men as human beings rather than looking at them through the eyes of “What can I get?” But I honestly feel that we should do this with all people we meet, so to me it just goes back to being human and considerate. Even with strangers or girlfriends. I absolutely love it when a man opens doors for me, and when they compliment me if it’s sincere. I’ve struggled with guys constantly trying to outwit me…it seems like dating is never an authentic experience, which is why my boyfriend really did stand out from the pack. Sure he’s confident, but no way is he an Alpha. He never treated me like crap and called regularly (not obsessively), which really made me respect him…because he respected me. I’ve often told my girlfriends “Date a European!!” The game we Americans play in the dating world has now become fixed…so both sexes do it and it doesn’t seem to be getting any better. Tinder makes everything worse, I feel. American men seem soooo afraid to speak to me (I’m reasonably attractive), but not so with Europeans! Many of them will even ask right off the bat “Do you have a boyfriend” or say “Your eyes are so pretty!” I don’t take this as an assault on my agency. Yes, I am “empowered” and have goals and plans for my life (mostly artistic), but I don’t feel being feminine and kind with men conflicts with this. It’s just humanism. I just can’t hack that game. I feel fortunate I found someone. It’s even worse in Los Angeles where I live. I also have lived for months in Europe, too. I just love how classy the men and women are, especially these women in Spain. I don’t know. They’re more sexually liberated but seem to have more class and dignity at the same time. It’s an interesting paradox. If you’re secure with yourself as a woman, you shouldn’t need a man with tons of money or striking good looks. I think that has something to do with the superficiality. Sure, there needs to be chemistry and attraction, but that’s not what comes from interviewing someone.

Rachel Farina February 5, 2016 - 12:30 am

Oh! I should also add that I prefer European female friends (or non-American female friends) over American women. Probably for the very same reasons you listed with regards to dating. They just seem SO much more genuine. The walls aren’t up, the guard is down, and there doesn’t seem to be this constant competition or jealousy. I can connect with them right off the bat and be myself! I’ve connected with European immigrants my entire life! Even my best friends as a little girl. The American girls made fun of me…lol.

Guna February 5, 2016 - 2:11 am

Maverick, the title of this article, in itself, if absolutely beautiful. And it’s such a pleasure to hear from someone exactly what I’ve been feeling for quite some time. I’ve read all the articles on your blog, and just wanted to make a few notes from my own experience. Me / you are fortunate in that we got out of the USSR right on time, (I, too, moved to Brooklyn from USSR during the mass exodus). Immigrating to the US at a young age gave us a unique perspective of the country. We, thankfully, still have an Eastern European mentality, but with a US passport and education and an understanding of the many flaws of the US, such as the enormous harm that feminism and political correctness has done to normal human relationships. I think the best way to look at the US is not as a place to live in, it’s not, but as a place to run your business in. One really important dimension to the US is a sound & reliable legal system, which is crucial for capitalism. The country offers unlimited opportunities to test whatever products you have to offer to a population that is willing to spend on anything and in a country where the legal system exists to protect your business. But, as for actually enjoying your personal life, get the hell out of US asap, enjoy your personal life, and run your company from abroad, as you rightly pointed out. Different countries have their unique benefits, whether it’s stable economy, soulful humans or cheap labor. The key to happiness, I think, is to take advantage of all of them simultaneously.

Guna February 5, 2016 - 3:19 am

One more key point I forgot to mention. My favorite line from any film is Brad Pitt’s character in the movie Killing Them Softly, when he says “America is not a country. It’s just a business.” It’s very accurate. Don’t expect to be happy doing anything else here, especially having normal human relationships.

James Maverick February 16, 2016 - 3:12 pm

Thanks Guna. Great comment.

Poopy McPoop Pants February 24, 2016 - 12:00 am

American women are basically worthless on the whole. The Baby Boomers for the most part are hyper-feminist morons who alienated their husbands and emasculated their sons. Then they produced a generation of whore daughters who think that the size of the tramp stamp above their butt crack is a measurement of their “female empowerment”. I wouldn’t spend one of my many, many, many dollars on any single one of these horrible excuses for human beings. Men in America are waking up. They are no longer cow-towing to PC bullies and they are no longer letting females guilt them into doing what they want, acting they way they want, and, most importantly, spending their money on them. I married foreign and I will NEVER look back. I am in my early 40s and all I hear are horror stories of divorce and of men losing everything they worked to earn through college and grad school to greedy bitches who basically planned to f–k their husband over from the minute they were married. If I never talk to another boring, stupid, vapid American woman ever again, I will be so, so happy, that I would not know what to do with myself.

JSS February 27, 2016 - 3:51 pm

LMAO. Too funny. I was reading these comments about Eastern European women being so polite as my next door neighbors Serbian wife was screaming and cursing her American husband out cause she spent their rent money on shopping for clothes again LOL. So stupid and ignorant. I was born and raised in America, my parents, however, were immigrants from southern and eastern europe. Your interpretations of women actually shows why people abroad think Americans are stupid. The women you describe kiss your ass because they are taught they have no other choice. And behind your backs, they call you the insensitive pricks you actually are.
The fact that you sit here crying your eyes out like you white American men are so abused and mistreated while complaining about women and degrading non-white men as thugs just proves your ignorance AND your desperate need to get the same “special pampered treatment” you are complaining about women wanting.
Here’s a wake up call for men and women alike, a relationship is about mutual respect. If you don’t give it, you shouldn’t get it and I don’t care if you’re male or female. An asshole is an asshole, regardless of his gender and you all, are well, assholes. And every European woman I know and am related to would fully agree and does not want to be your slave wife. Here’s a clue” get over yourself and maybe you will find a woman who also got over herself. But the fact that you constantly have picked women who treat you like crap may have something to do with you, not them. Emotionally healthy people don’t typically pick horrible partners over and over again and don’t typically have to resort to dating people with fewer options and therefore, more likely to deal with your unhealthy ego issues.

Kerry Parker June 29, 2016 - 1:30 pm

American women are taught by feminists that all men are bad , don’t respect them and abuse them. No matter which country you are in, if that country is hit by feminism , same result. Better to find a woman , where feminism is not hit that much. That’s the solution.

The Dude May 18, 2016 - 1:38 am

I remember reading some global divorce stats not long ago (and sorry, I’ve since forgotten the source). What jumped out at me was a section that sampled the divorce rates for American men who married non-American women, to wit: among American men who settled down overseas to live with foreign brides, the divorce rate was a paltry eight percent, whereas the divorce rate among American men who settled down with foreign brides in the States was over fifty percent. I’m curious to see how your readers might interpret that.

RL June 27, 2016 - 4:01 am

Another WordPress blogger “Dalrock” does a whole series of blogs on marriage, dating, children, interpersonal relations, etc. Many sources are saying marriage, children, are in huge increasing declines in the richer western world and even rising countries elsewhere. It does not make sense to be married with children in the wealthy, urbanized, industrialized world. It would only mean asset lost in divorce, and more children mouths to feed and house. Married with lots of kids is only good in poor, farming countries because they are cheap additional workers.

RL June 24, 2016 - 9:04 am

Dating, marriage, children all suck and are a money drain. Be comfortable by yourself. Modern marriage is all stress and then divorce will make you poor in divorce court. Feminism and the law along with the increasingly unstable world economy, society, and culture, means being singles is the way to go. This is not the traditional 1950’s anymore. You do not need dating, marriage, kids to have sex or be approved by society as not weird. Relationships are so much hassle.

Penguin Monkey July 6, 2019 - 10:10 pm

I wonder how much of that attitude is caused by the rising costs where rent and education cost 6x as much today than it did back in the day b/c the government has been captured by people who want to reduce the supply of housing with regulations and zoning laws so they can sell houses for higher. In Thailand and Vietnam the cost of living is much much lower.

Kerry Parker June 24, 2016 - 5:27 pm

Just leave the American women alone. Nowadays, American successful, educated men marry east european, asian or indian women . These foreign women are much smarter than Amerian sl*ts , have family values and education. American women are only for poor loser type of trashy men. problem solved.

RL June 27, 2016 - 3:54 am

Poor, dumb, and trashy reminds me of the movie “Idiocracy”. Can you imagine the kind of society 500 years in the future? This future is populated by retarded dummies because the dumb and trashy bred like rabbits and the smart stopped reproducing. This future society waters their crops with sports energy drinks because they have electrolytes which is good for everything. The water fountains also have energy drinks, etc. The average IQ person is considered a genius.

Kerry Parker June 29, 2016 - 3:13 pm


Kerry Parker June 29, 2016 - 3:11 pm

Dating or being married to an American woman is like driving a “beat-up” Ford-Escort car. If you are only used to driving a beat-up Ford-Escort , then you have no idea , what it feels like, when you drive a Ferrari or Lamborghini car . You need to at least test-drive a Ferrari , so you will have a reference-point on what a real car feels like .

I would take a foreign-born Russian or Latina woman any day. They are much nicer and normally much SMARTER than most American women- plus they don’t watch tv all day– they go to the library or perform outside activities.

RL July 3, 2016 - 2:53 am

Black, white, asian, east indian, native indian, mixed, whatever does not matter. If they lived a long time or are born in a Western country, the females will almost always become, bitchy, spoiled, gold digging, controlling, greedy, entitled. You really should go for the oversees asians, blacks, polynesians, etc. They are more real than the ones in North America. The entitled ones are unmarriageable unless you like hassle. I personally feel in today’s “hookup” society, marriage, common law cohabitation, and having kids is a financial, legal losers’ game. The bottom line is casual sex without any legal tangles, nothing more, nothing else. You can have as many friends with benefits as you see fit and it will not cost you any of your hard earned, saved assets.

Kerry Parker July 4, 2016 - 12:15 pm

Men need to change the game plan accordingly . Think the positive side of Feminism. It makes easier for men to do sex with random girls casually. We men should do sex with many girls regardless of age, religion, married , unmarried….anyone until our D*ck fell off. But never make any legal contract paper, marriage license and be careful about making anyone pregnant …..(condom hole trick, I am on pill BS) . 90% of western women are feminists.

If you want a family oriented woman , travel to non-western countries, but , remember 10% of Upscale non-western women are feminists too like American women. So play accordingly . Find out a woman who is not feminist. It has nothing to do with western or non-western women. It is all about “Feminism”.

My email: karycolumbia@gmail.com

Gadu Gadu July 14, 2016 - 12:19 pm

I’ve been in South Africa a while. As long as you steer clear of the urban, nuveau-riche-wannabe hussies (of all races) of Johannesburg and Cape Town (the former are materialistic gold diggers, the latter are snobs.) you can find awesome women. South African women like good food, good conversation, a good laugh, and different experiences. They don’t (with the exception of aforementioned hussies) expect you to have a fancy job, drive a fancy car, or wear fancy clothes–particularly because most of them have their own careers and are comfortable in them. South Africa has a very large number of extremely beautiful women of different races, and they take care of themselves too. Lots of black women are sexy, curvy, polite, and friendly with gorgeous braided hairstyles. If you’re a white guy, you won’t get hostility from the blacks for dating one of their girls–learn a little about their culture and language and they have utmost respect for you. Very few have the bad attitudes common among American blacks.

If you’re a black guy and want to date a white girl, some of the older generation of whites may find it hard to accept at first but you’d be surprised how quickly many of them are to change their way of thinking. The younger whites (both English and Afrikaans) don’t care if you’re of a different race. Most whites have dropped the racially superior, apartheid bullshit.

The Coloured women (that’s the mixed race community) are witty and fun. South Africa also has large communities of Indians, Ethiopians, Chinese, Greeks, Portuguese, Jews, Lebanese, Italians, Germans, Nigerians, and Congolese, so you’re spoiled for choice.

Increasingly South African women expect to be treated as equals, but you won’t get the entitled, man-hating, hostile-attitude Third Wave feminism of American bitches–it doesn’t really exist there.

And living there is not nearly as bad as you might think as long as you learn how to avoid crime, which simply means learning how not to make stupid moves so as to end up a hijacking victim. But additionally, other African countries besides for South Africa are awesome places to do business because their economies are growing and they practice laissez-fairre capitalism.

Kerry Patel July 14, 2016 - 2:02 pm

In any feminist dominated country, a decent man has 2 options left .
(1) Be a ma-whore , never take any woman seriously , don’t spend money on her , go with the flow , fuk randomly as many girls as you can & never get emotionally involve with her.
(2) Focus on yourself , making money , be rich and don’t focus on women. Women come & go, but your bank account will be same . Money is your best friend . For your own happiness, do NOT depend on any girl.

Edgy August 9, 2016 - 5:11 pm

Wow, seeing this article makes me feel better, in my early 30’s now, and ever since I can remember I have never had luck with woman, always nothing to talk about (I am not shy by any means), granted I dont care about what celebrities are doing (i dont care) but seems like I can never have a legit conversation with a woman. But my whole life was like that never had a girlfriend until I was 19 and only lasted couple weeks, so I was always under the impression something was wrong with me, and I was popular school, I hung out with all the popular kids, was invited to all the parties, went on trips with other kids and sometimes their families. Did everything but have relationships. Well after joining the army nothing changed but going oversees and off base I could talk for hours with local girls, then go back home and nothing, well I grew up in the country worked hard on ranches and family primarily farmers. and all white with mexican labor. Well in the army went to hang out with black friends and families and noticed that I could talk to black woman have great time with black woman a blast, Then I got out of army and started contracting, I have been almost everywhere and then I realized It wasnt me at all I can go to any country and have great time meet any woman and have a relationship, well all that lead me to the Philippines and loved the place and got married and had a kid, and still contract but my home is in philippines but still travel everywhere still no problems. Then I went home for my sisters weeding (first time in states in seven years and realized american spoiled white girls are just that girls, I was amazed by this the transformation of woman in other countries they had real world problems like everyone and whats more is most people I talked to had no idea about anything.

Ernest October 14, 2016 - 12:02 pm

I feel the same way that Maverick and some others feel.

I have never dated American women and I have no interest in dating them. I do not care if some of them are nice and pretty. It just seems that most American women, nice or mean-spirited, are all the same. I was interested in some “nice” and “caring” American females who turned out to be arrogant, selfish, and despicable.

I do not have hatred toward American women. There are some (not all) who are down-to-earth, friendly, and caring. But, I just do not care anymore. My heart, mind, and soul are with foreign women now. I am crazy about the women from Colombia, Dominican Republic, Ukraine, the Philippines, and even China. I keep watching videos and looking at pictures of these beautiful foreign women. I cannot get enough of them. I think God everyday that these women exist. I plan to go to each country, meet multiple women, and come back to America and choose who I want to marry and spend the rest of my life.

Marrying a foreign woman is a dream I am going to make come true.

To guys who are curious or interested in being with a foreign woman, do not let anyone or anything keep you from following your heart.

THOMAS November 26, 2016 - 10:42 am

l;ike most men who are smart, i stopped dating american women back in college and now am married to a women from middle east and she’s christian like me and it’s almost 20 yrs now and never been happier!

american women are in one word:


karuna December 7, 2016 - 4:29 pm

good article, enjoyed reading it. Clicks with me, I get it. 🙂

TP January 9, 2017 - 4:28 pm

As a 60 year old man who has seen a great deal of the world I can only say one thing to men younger than myself, see the world and experience what woman from other parts have to offer. When one sees what it offers, you will find that your home country isn’t so great. One must see first hand the beauty and splendor of woman from other countries. Truly a wonderful experience they offer.

Michael January 18, 2017 - 8:04 pm

I’m 61, and I quit dating in 2001. My last date was just for lunch. The girl I took out was 38, and I’d met her in college years earlier. I found her on the Net. After two emails she accused me of stalking her. Yet she did give me her number, I called and set up lunch. What a mistake! It was 45 min. of sullen and rude behavior from her as I tried every way I could to get her relaxed. She had no intention of enjoying herself. She wouldn’t eat one bite of food! Wish I’d paid the bill and left. Later I sent her an email and I got no response. In retrospect she went out with me only to run me off by treating me badly. It worked. I never contacted her again. This is in Houston-a terrible dating market for both sexes. For guys it’s really bad–don’t date here ever. Too many losers and misfits. Overall I’d say American women are risky dates and very scary marriage prospects. Most of my friends are divorced, some twice, and none of them ever encouraged me to marry. I’ve been lonely lots of years, but after I’ve seen what marriage is like for most of my male friends, I’ll pass. Just for fun–I did try Match.com over two years ago for 9 months. I had over 1400 women view my profile, I contacted 40, ten responded, but not one would even meet for coffee. You wonder why American women can’t find anyone! These women are not models or prom queens. They were 50 plus and looking. Ladies–you aren’t getting any younger! Hello!!!! Case closed. Avoid online dating–it’s a scam.

Tim February 15, 2017 - 12:11 am

Agree 100%! Before I got married in 1988 I dated a lot of attractive women. Was married 24 years, divorced 4. Now I live in Boise, Idaho, these women are the worst! Snobby witches. Many online feel they’re beauty queens: sorry ladies….I’ve dated better looking.

Robin March 2, 2017 - 4:57 pm

In all honesty and fairness, in MY experience, there are quality American women out there. They are also few and far between and in my experience mostly situated outside of the metropolitan areas in rural America. Unless they live in perennial poverty pockets like those in the coalfields and around Appalachia and parts of the Deep South which have an overly “entitled” population due to the increasing socialization of America, they are generally friendly and appreciative.

This is the same rural America that while completely marginalized in modern American culture holds onto traditional values as best they can thus looking like a foreign demographic within these United States. Not so coincidentally, this same rural America is that denied Hillary and the Democrats political validation this last election, despite what the presstitutes in the MSM tell you……

My advice for expats (maybe before they become expats) and foreign travelers alike is to spend some time in the “other America” before painting us all with the same wide brush. Remember, humility is where you find it, and you find it because and where you look.

All that said, yes, foreign women (I’m male so can only speak toward the women in this regards) have quite a bit to offer. I also hear that much of the same as I have stated above applies to many of the great cities throughout the world. As for me, when I travel, I prefer the reality of the hinterlands compared to the urban “illusion” and branding encountered in many locales.

Jey January 15, 2018 - 6:28 am

Coming from the UK, I had a great time in America. I found the girls there far better than in the UK (maybe having an English accent helped though!). I had an awesome girlfriend in NJ and while we broke up after I went home, we stayed in touch.

Tips for American guys- Go to acting school, England or watch videos on youtube. Learn to do a British accent, pretend to be a tourist from England and slay away haha

Sarah March 18, 2017 - 11:18 am

I am an Australian residing in the USA. My fiancé is American and is beyond thrilled to have founded me. His experience with American women has been that they are usually of less than average intelligence, prone to being rough or trashy, unfaithful, shallow and selfish. I cater to him. I respect him. I am strong but also feminine and wear dresses and matnian my appearance. I cook. I clean. Gender roles work, something American women will not accept. Nope. They want it. A man to use and pay all their bills and in return, they will either cheat or get fat and be lazy while using him. He dumped a woman he was married to who did this. She appeared to be a decent woman so he married fast thinking he wasn’t getting any younger. Within six months after they wed, she gained 80 pounds. I tell you, this woman got BIG. Last we say her, she was even bigger. Obesity is not appealing. She moved in her special needs sister, her daughter wet the bed and she left the pee soaked sheets in the hallway, she was FILTHY to live with and made no effort to take care of him at all, even though he paid for everything. Served HAMBURGER HELPER AS THE EVENING MEAL!!!!! Wtf!!!!!!! This sense of entitlement many Americans have both women and men and it’s a problem. In the end, he couldn’t even get it up to sleep with her and was so repulsed by her selfishness and carelessness, we met and fell in love and now he’s happy and APPRECIATED.

American March 18, 2017 - 11:00 pm

It’s so great to hear that it’s only American women, that I don’t have to put up with this bullshit in most other areas of the world. I am sick of all the bullshit from American women – and I am an American man. In another country, I would be married to a beautiful woman by now – I am a good looking and smart man. In America you have to play these ridiculous games to get around their misandry and feminism, and they are broken. Not all American women – but the very very few that aren’t totally brainwashed by western 3rd wave feminism are already married with kids. If you’re looking for a girl around 25 you’re basically SOL in America. If she was worth anything she married her high school boyfriend. I’m sick of these self-debasing games and manipulative shit just to get a girl’s attention – and good luck keeping it.

Ben May 28, 2017 - 7:26 pm

Most american women are such very horrible creatures altogether now since they have the worst personality and no respect for us men at all especially nowadays. And God forbid when many of us men will try to start a normal conversation with them since many of times they will mouth off to us good innocent men for no reason at all. Enough said right there. It is very unfortunate that we have so many very stuck up pathetic loser women everywhere now which is why many of us good men are still single today.

John Rambo June 17, 2017 - 4:00 pm

Great post. I’m the dude who started the Boycott American Women blog. Have you heard of it?

J. August 7, 2017 - 7:09 am

Most American women have the intellectual curiosity of a marble. Their ignorance and sense of entitlement is often breathtaking, often related to their over-inflated sense of attractiveness. The reality is, American female attractiveness is at a very low and very superficial level.
They have a bad spirit.
Don’t blame yourselves guys. Just buy a plane ticket to another part of the world where women don’t wear their gender or their negative attitude towards their own biology on their shoulders like a chip, and who are looking for the next contestant on the price is right, to knock it off.

Susan Sanders August 8, 2017 - 1:00 pm

I don’t disagree with the fact that most American women are like that but I am not like that. I don’t have female friends because I agree with what you say. I can’t relate to American women but I can’t relate to a lot of American men either. A lot of American men are not much better then most American women. That’s also why I am looking for a partner in Europe too.

jawnee April 24, 2018 - 9:05 pm

You say American women have the intellectual curiosity of a marble…LOL Thats a good one!!

but but but but ,companionship!!! That’s what women say,”companionship!!!” Everything women touch today was built,manufactured,invented and set up by men……What kind of conversation or companionship can a man truly have with a woman,if he is intelligent and inquisitive????

Down in the southern Usa…A lot of women are estheticians or make up artists.Sometimes the woman will forget to mention make up and just say they are artists….LOL

A man wants to talk about the eccentric personalities of the artist and their works,a woman wants to talk about water proof eye liner and how she covered up the feminine with make up while at work…..I might as well buy a rubber doll with real fake ti#s and has a real make up mask,then date a woman with fake ti#s who covers up the feminine with make up..lmao!!!

We gotta start calling the American woman out on her sh#t…I avoid women like the dastardly kid in the neighborhood who would have a sling shot…LOL

Jey January 15, 2018 - 6:23 am

Unfortunately, most of northern/western Europe is just as bad if not worse than the US.
I’m British and have had terrible experiences with girls in England who sound exactly the same as chicks in the US but with the added bitch shield of the British culture of reservedness/reluctance to talk to strangers.
All my exes in the UK dumped me, usually for other guys. Some cheated too. The demographics in my northern, industrial city didn’t help either. There were far more men than women, meaning the girls could afford to be picky. We had a saying, “you don’t get a girlfriend, you get a turn”.

Since then, I’ve travelled extensively in Europe, the US and Asia. I dated a German girl who, while still high on the “strong independent feminist” front, at least she was a nice person. I also got involved with a Hungarian girl who was cool. It seems with Europe, the further east you go, the better. Even Southern Europe can be difficult with the language barrier and abundance of handsome, charming local guys. I wouldn’t want to be single and competing against the well dressed, tanned romantic guys in Spain, France or Italy

In contrast to a lot of the above comments, I did considerably well in the US (although maybe having an English accent helped!). My girlfriend there was a real sweetheart, we were together my whole time there but broke up amicably after I returned to England and we kept in touch for a long time after. Maybe I just got lucky!

But after that I went out the Asia and found where my heart truly lay. I stayed in Thailand and fell in love repeatedly, with the women there. Not only are they unbelievably beautiful and stay so far long after western women have got fat and let themselves go but they are also super compassionate and caring.

When I’d get sick back in England, my girlfriend would leave me alone to see her friends without so much as a “love you” as she goes. In Thailand, if I get sick, my girlfriend would cook me nice soup, bathe my forehead with a wet towel, buy me medicine from the pharmacy and hold me till I feel better. The differences are stark.

Since I found my Thai wife, I could never see myself dealing with the moody, stroppy, overentitled 6’s back in England and I look back in pity at my friends, kind, decent men who continue to do so.

jawnee April 24, 2018 - 8:56 pm

American women lead the world in abortion,obesity,single motherhood,divorce,personal debts and mental illness…Also probably false rape claims…..

Our women wear mens crew cuts,rarely wear dress’s,they celebrate fat acceptance while little kids in the world die of starvation,initiaite 80% of the 50% of all marriages that end in divorce,they don’t cook yet demand to be wined and dined….They collect cats and bastid children.They have aborted 60,000,000 babies with over 30 contraceptives available,while men are denied the right to opt out of fatherhood.

Nearly every man I have known has been divorced,paying child support,lost his home,car and children….Its awful….I refuse to even have sex with women now to avoid ever having to pay child support or losing my house,car and children…….judges even award ex’s the family pets just like they do children.

I believe this is why the American women horridly oversexualizes herself wherever she goes,at the mall,church,bars,colleges etc….because they are thirstier than ever for male attention,because men are absolutely avoiding them and for good reason.

The average American woman due to online dating,social media and being raised by diseny princess movies….who owns men through the criminal and divorce courts thinks she is a god…Its disgusting.America spoiled its women and now they are rotten and undatable….

Like a blue berry falling off the bush…ploooop!! American women priced themselves completely out of the dating and marriage market with their ginormous backsides,ego’s,sense of entitlement and horrid attitudes…..

A different thought February 28, 2019 - 2:41 pm

Feminism has taught Western women to be strong and independent. That somehow, having a family where the woman is in control of household affairs and serves as the backbone of the family, is bad. That having a career and be on your own is the most important thing in life. Feminism has put men in a poor spot light. Well, fine, only cuckolds will continue to try to keep up with the increasing demanding Western women, whereas the smart and sensible men are looking for women from different cultures who do understand the meaning of family and what the gender roles are supposed to be. To the feminist Western woman: Go be strong an independent and enjoy your cats.

chip June 11, 2019 - 6:00 pm

Curious question James and I’m 50 and not expecting 22 year olds to fall to their knees even though I still am in tremendous shape (muay thai and boxing) and have huge assets. I’m in Poland now in the Gdansk area and hope it is just because I’m in a tourist town but I am seeing the same attitude now with Polish girls. And I’m on a few sites for Ukraine dating which is where I’m heading next. My feeling is the Slavic girl isn’t as awesome as they say. They tend to be morose, dark and have this sinister aura. And all of them are “35 with kids because we got married then divorced by 27.” I see them fronting a unicorn to grab American men to rescue them more than they are great. Czech women were horrible–of course I was in Prague. Your take??? Because I’m thinking Latin America is next. Things are changing in Eastern Europe. I just had a lecture given to me by a 32 year old divorcee with a four year old telling me maybe the reason I wasn’t married was because my standards were too high. Or maybe it’s because I don’t want to raise her kid. . . how about that. Mind me asking what age you are as young guys will always rule in clubs when older guys are asleep. Thanks pal

Laura July 13, 2019 - 9:40 pm

I am a foreign woman living in the US and I don`t understand why the American men behave so badly, apparently, only in the US. I understand that foreign women who live abroad might not be aware of this, so they treat American men nicely, because they act normal (like other men) when abroad.

However, just the same way that American men criticize their own women on this post, American men are very bad quality compared to men from other countries. I say this, because living in the US, I have learned that men play a lot of mind games, they tend to be rather immature, and they are very uncommitted. Have you ever thought that American women are “so bad” because they are used to dealing with bad American men?

I love compliments, being treated with respect, as a feminine woman. In my country, and on dates with foreign men, I always felt this way. With American, you rarely get this. Also, I’ve only have had one American boyfriend for 5 years, and he was very mean to me and lied a lot. I have never had these problems with past relationships and I still keep a cordial relationship with those exes and could call them just to see how their life is going from time to time. The same is not true with the American ex, even though I have tried to be nice to him.

To the American men: stop judging your own women, who are simply a reflection of you. Be nice and empathetic and genuine.

To foreign women: stay with your own men and don’t fall easily for American men unless they are willing to commit and are serious… otherwise they will make excuses down the road and waste the best years of your life and then it will be hard finding a good man after 30. Ironically, as much as they dislike their own women, it is the American women who would be more likely to be okay with an uncommitted American as long as they live together or if they have kids… but many of us foreign women are traditional and want genuinely good and responsible men.

Anon December 6, 2019 - 6:32 pm

As a MGTOW, I will agree that American men are giant immature robots, without mentioning cucks and manginas. Commitment? No, because no sane male will commit under the jurisdiction of the government ready to have half his stuff stolen. But immature, yes. As a male I can’t speak topics such as finance, law, history, or science before their short term attention span (women too) triggers and disrespectfully finds a way out of the social conversation.. so that the next minute you’ll see these men talking about stupid jokes, horseplay, or a low level of intellectual topics of stupidity, over and over that lead to nowhere, mostly driven by the brainwashing of Hollywood and the internet meme environment. And these men are sometimes older than me! The thing is, men aren’t screwing over women systematically across the nation, and the lack of quality women, let alone femininity or humanism is waking up men at a rapid pace. Eventually.. men will mature, but will women who have expired themselves? Will they mature by submitting to a male?

Stephanie October 18, 2019 - 4:58 pm

First of all, it is highly unlikely that men have access to these women overseas for a number of reasons. Chinese, FIlipino, Thai, and other Asian women are effectively banned from living with men before marriage, have sex before marriage, dating, or heaven forbid, finding a foreign man. Their families control dating and marriage, and there is no way they are going to let a white or Hispanic foreigner take up with their daughters, especially in their own countries. I have seen some interracial marriages here in North America, but that is because those people live here, have for generations, and are integrated. They don’t require parental approval. Most of these stories are made up. Notice the talk of women being used for sex or as conquests. Says little about these men. Most women can pick up on their agenda. Another thing: women who say no are given a hard time. Sometimes you have to yell it to get it across. How many men harass, stalk, and touch women without permission, or start arguments/throw tantrums when a woman politely but firmly dismisses them? Women don’t have to be polite, you know, but you don’t take them seriously when they do. In most women’s minds, no is no, yes is yes, and that’s about it. Nothing else needs to be said. Men who respect women take no for an answer. Women should not have to be rude to get the point across, but sometimes, that is the only choice because of how many men refuse to take no, make it difficult, or see women as challenges to be worn out into subservience and agreement. Sometimes, if women are getting angry, men are the cause.

Transformed Stepford Wife February 14, 2020 - 12:42 pm

Hispanics are okay with Filipinas because their culture is similar.

Even American women, especially among Southerners, are not allowed to date and marry foreign men. Their families control whom they date and marry which means marry their own race, country, etc. Once an American women cheat on their American husbands with foreign men, they wind up getting raped or murdered. Women in most countries are still seen as property of men and their families in their country because they have to bear children that will continue their heritage. In my family, females rarely marry outside of the country while the males can do whatever they wish. My family married off to an American even though I’m American myself and boy, he gave me a good hard whipping for cheating on him with a handsome European and now, I’m forever restricted from interacting with other males and speaking more than one or two languages, if the OP and and all other guys on here are quite impressed with my husband beating me into submission for disrespecting and challenging his manhood.

The only American women who see men as sexual conquests are those who are raised in liberal environments. They get raped and murdered more often, even for abusing men because they are very unfeminine and are trying to emasculate men by raping them and wearing them into subjugation and agreement. These women are usually uncommitted and think they can do whatever they wish and get away with it. It’s no wonder there is more rape and domestic violence in America. It’s how American women behave just like my American friends getting their butts whipped for smoking, drinking, drugs, porn, narcissism, and other males. Women are like children and pets. If they are good, they get rewarded. If they are bad, they get harsh discipline and punishment.

Is that alright with you, Mav? American women should please everyone, you know.

Maruka November 2, 2019 - 10:05 pm

LOL jesus christ i didnt believe it till i tried it. Left the country in 2016 dated around for 3 years girls outside the country… arent bitches…. well atleast if u stay away from the big cities. City bitches are the worse. Hollywood portrayed them correctly in those old movies. Recently married boys. my girl has big tits and shes prettier than any of my exes in america… and shes not a huge bitch. shes loves my affection and unlike american bitches i can joke around with her in all sortsa ways and she jokes back. american bitches take offense to everything.

Had a friend in the usa. Found out she got divorced and the guy cheated. Back when i was stupid; id say o that guys a jerk. Thats not true. he cheated cause shes a huge bitch. I tried to invite her out for lunch. and shes like im not ready for a relationship yet, so i just told her im not interested i actually dont date american women anymore. ROFL nobody wants a used up bitch. She is a very cute girl, and i told her she should workout more because she was the prettiest girl back in school. SHE TURNED AROUND AND SAID WHAT? DONT JUDGE MY SIZE. LOL SO IM NOT BEAUTIFUL NOW? ROFL american women only wants to be lied to. BITCHES HATE HONEST MEN. and that is why they will always get fked and dumped by the players.

whitebired November 13, 2019 - 4:52 pm

Wow, I’m happy to read your article and thank you very much . I thought something wrong with me and I was wondering why I can’t understand American women!!, if you guys born and live your whole life in USA and still can’t understand them or doing well then I feel that I did enough so that’s it me , I’m going to find my soulmate from East Europe .

Felix The Cat January 30, 2020 - 5:51 pm

It’s simple, ladies and gents, feminism = cancer and probably worse.


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