Tinder in Vietnam: The Ultimate Guide


Tinder in Vietnam is a great way to meet Vietnamese women, but there are a few gotchas that you should be aware of. 

In this guide, we’ll talk about how you can use Tinder in Vietnam to meet Vietnamese women including the most important tips and tricks you need in order to succeed in terms of meeting Vietnamese women.

We’ll cover the mistakes people make on Tinder in Vietnam so that you’ll avoid making the same mistakes.

Last but not least, we’ll cover a great alternative to Tinder that’s working really well right now in Vietnam.

Keep reading this ultimate guide to meeting Vietnamese women on Tinder in Vietnam.

What is Tinder

Tinder is one of the most famous apps for meeting and dating women online.

It’s basically an app that’s available for download on both Apple and Google app stores.

Once you download the app, you go through a list of women and you can swipe either left if you don’t like the girl or right if you like what you see.

At first, I thought everyone knows about this app, but I suppose there are people out there who may have never heard of it.

How to use Tinder 

Tinder is very easy to use. Simply download the app and begin swiping.

If you like the woman you’re presented, swipe right; if you don’t, simply swipe right. It doesn’t get much easier than this.

What kind of women can you find on Tinder in Vietnam?

In every country, there are different types of women that you can find on Tinder.

The same is true in Vietnam.

In Vietnam, you can generally find 4 types of women: the wannabe model, the working girl, the attention whore and a regular girl who’s interested in companionship and relationship.

Let’s dive deeper into every single type of these women.

The wannabe model

This is a girl who loves taking photos of herself and posting them on every social media available.

She may or may not have a huge Instagram following, but she’s busy posing and posting pictures.

She calls herself a “model” but she’s not a legit model, but just another “social media model.” 

The working girl

This is a girl who’s isn’t really looking for dating or relationship but is using Tinder as a way to find clients for her “profession” – which is indeed the world’s oldest profession.

If you’re not sure what I’m referring to here, she’s just another prostitute he’s looking is looking for customers.

Of course, I have no moral judgments one way or another, so it’s completely up to you if you want to pursue this relationship further.

The attention whore

Women love attention more than Channel handbags and Vietnamese women are no exception.

This is a woman who will reply to your messages, make endless dates with you, but when the time comes to actually meet up, she’ll either ignore you or say that “something has come up” and she couldn’t see you.

That’s because her sole purpose is to chat with random guys and—that’s it.

She’s not interested in dating or actually building a relationship—just attention from you responding to her messages and hoping she’ll see you.

The regular girl

Last but not least, we have “the regular girl.”

Out of all girls on this list, this is the girl you can comfortably introduce to your friends or bring home to your mom.

She has a normal job, normal friends and good hobbies. 

She’s the girl you can build a great relationship with and even possibly marry.

Yes, these girls do exist on Tinder in Vietnam, but you must know how to tell them apart.

There’s a shortcut to this: they don’t fit into any of the categories above of the other girls.

That’s how you know.

How to meet women off Tinder

Meeting women of Tinder in Vietnam is an art all by itself.

First, it’s hard because most of the women aren’t really there to build strong connections and marriage.

Sure, that’s what they say, but when you can be “swiping” all day and getting attention from endless guys, who needs to actually pick one guy and go on a series of dates with him.

So, I will tell you this right now: the majority of the women you contact will drop off at some point and you won’t be on dates with them.

It’s all a numbers game.

Just accept and you’ll be better off for it.

After all, these aren’t women from your social circle, your job or your school.

These are random women that don’t really owe you anything and you don’t owe them anything either.

So, having said that, let me give you some tactics for getting women to go out on a date with you.

Step 1) Build rapport

It’s important to take your time and build rapport with the women you’re chatting with.

If the woman drops off and stops replying to you, don’t chase her, but simply let her go and continue.

If a woman is replying to your messages in a timely matter and is continuing to get to know you, keep chatting with her.

If you don’t rush that you want to meet RIGHT NOW, sooner or later, she’ll start hinting about meeting you.

Step 2) Get their WhatsApp/Line/Viber

Personally, I don’t like to chat on the Tinder app for a long time.

As soon as I feel we exchanged a few phrases, I like to get her WhatsApp right away.

That way I can communicate with her on an app that she communicates with her friends and family with. this ensures our conversations become more personal and intimate.

Step 3) Always hint to meet in real life

While you don’t want to be pushy with meeting her, you do want to hint that meeting is something that’s important to you.

And you do that by hinting about the meeting. 

You can say, “If you like coffee, you’ll love this coffee shop in my neighborhood.” 

Or, “there’s a cool museum in this part of town that may like, too.” 

The goal is to feel her out without coming off too desperate.

Eventually, she’s going to be pushing you for a meet.

Frequently asked questions

Here are some frequently asked questions that you may have about Tinder.

Is Tinder Free?

Yes, and no.

Tinder is free, but you’re limited to the number of profiles you’re allowed to match. That limit is reset every 12 hours.

I don’t have the exact number of matches you’re allowed to do under the free plan, but if you use the tactics described here, you should do fine with the free plan.

However, if you run out of the free matches, there’s the Tinder Gold option which costs $20-$30/mo and gives you an unlimited amount of matches.

Tinder vs. Vietnam Cupid

Vietnam Cupid is the premier dating site for Vietnam and is a great alternative to Tinder.

The biggest difference between Tinder and Vietnam Cupid is that the former is just an app with very simple functionality, while the latter is a full-blown dating app and website that you can use to meet Vietnamese women.

In my experience, Vietnam Cupid is much better than Tinder for meeting quality women who’re more suitable for a relationship.

Is Vietnam Cupid Free?

Like Tinder, Vietnam Cupid has a limited free plan, but in order to get the most out of it, you should upgrade your membership to one of the higher plans.

Fortunately, the plans are super affordable, so you won’t break the bank doing so.

Closing words

So, there you have it, the full rundown on what’s Tinder in Vietnam like. 

However, if you’re interested in meeting quality women, I would recommend skipping Tinder altogether and checking out Vietnam Cupid. 

Simply create a free account and start meeting beautiful Vietnamese women.

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